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January 31, 2005

Masochist's Envy

Category: Worship & ecstasy

When Female/male D/s takes a masochistic male to ecstatic surrender.

January 30, 2005

Awkwardness and Confusion in D/s

Category: Humbling

Enforced clumsiness and confusion can be used to humble a slave in a BDSM play.

Core Fantasy: Whipping

Category: Pain

My most basic and persistent fantasies about being whipped.

Femdom Screensaver

Category: Instruments , Category: Miscellany

Screensaver of images of dominating women by various artists.

January 27, 2005

D/s and Ritual

Category: D/s Practices

Can rituals enhance a BDSM relationship?

On of the Joys of Masochism

Category: Pain

A masochist needs to know the sadist takes pleasure in inflicting pain.

Focusing on Pleasing Her

Category: Worship & ecstasy

On striving to remember that my role as a male slave should is to please my owner.

January 26, 2005

How Do You Punish a Masochist?

Category: D/s Practices , Category: Rules & Rituals

How does a master or mistress punish a slave who enjoys pain.

January 25, 2005

Bondage as Humilation

Category: Bondage , Category: D/s Practices

When a mistress or master puts a slave in bondage is that humilating him?

How Alexandra and I Met

Category: About

How this male slave met his current owner.

Of Wanting More D/s Play

Category: My Inner Life

A male slave who craves more S&M play than his partner.

January 24, 2005

Notes on Humiliation I

Category: Humbling

What makes a voluntary male slave feel humilated by his owner?

Part-time slave?

Category: My Inner Life

Why I perfer to call myself a slave instead of a submissive man.

Abrasion Play

Category: D/s Practices , Category: Pain

My Mistress rubbed her slave's body with a scrub brush.

January 23, 2005

Bondage and voluntary slavery

Category: Bondage , Category: Worship & ecstasy

On a slave's emotional need for physical bondage.

Smart Assed Masochist (The Long Night)

Category: Pain

Do I want more pain than I can handle, am I being to disrespectful of my Domme?

Clothespins (The Long Night)

Category: Humbling

My owner stuck clothespins in my nose to humiliate me.

Bound wrists (The Long Night)

Category: BDSM Play , Category: Humbling

Having my wrists locked in cuffs was deeply satisfying.

Cock leash (The Long Night)

Category: Genitorment , Category: Humbling

On being led around by a cock and ball leash.

Transitions & collars (The Long Night)

Category: D/s Practices

My owner takes control of me, feels no need to use a collar.

January 19, 2005

More pain creates more cravings?

Category: Cravings

The more this slave is punished the more pain he desires.

January 16, 2005

Cruel Laughter

Category: Worship & ecstasy

This slave feels great joy when his owner laughs at him.

January 15, 2005

Verbal Abuse

Category: Humbling

My owner using words to express contempt for this slave.

January 14, 2005

Eating from the Floor

Category: Humbling

My owner forced me to eat crushed grapes from the floor.

Needing to Obey

Category: Worship & ecstasy

This slave needs to obey and please his owner.

January 13, 2005

Boot Worship

Category: Worship & ecstasy

On licking and worshiping my owner's boots.

January 12, 2005


Category: Pain

Masochistic cravings for pain that becomes pleasure.


Category: Pain

Being tortured with clothespins

January 11, 2005

Unequal D/s Desires

Category: Cravings

I'm a masochist who wants to experience more pain than my owner is yet able to subject me to.

January 10, 2005

Being Spat On

Category: Humbling

My owner spit in my face.

Discovering slave space

Category: Worship & ecstasy

My owner's psychological violation of me gives me great ecstasy.

Face slapping

Category: Pain

Masochistic satisfaction of having my lover slap me in the face.

January 9, 2005

Collar and Leash

Category: Humbling

Having my owner put me on a collar and leash.

The Cane

Category: Instruments

About my owner's use of her cane to motivate her slave.