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February 28, 2005

Achieving the Slave State

Category: D/s Practices , Category: My Inner Life

On learning how to more fully and readily worship the woman who is my Goddess.

February 27, 2005

You Can Never Have Enough Whips

Category: Instruments

How many whips and floggers do you need to have an ideal BDSM dungeon?

Getting Into the Mood, Setting the Mood

Category: D/s Practices , Category: Prior Relationship

BDSM question: how does a dominant get into the mood to take control of his or her slave?

February 26, 2005

D/s: An Imperfect Session

Category: Prior Relationship

Female dominance, male submission isn't always as easy as you hope.

February 22, 2005

Sjambok (Prelude)

Category: Instruments

A rubber sjambok is our new S&M toy. Has a formidible flat sting.

Spanking & Flogging Books

Category: Punishment & Discipline , Category: Reference

Joseph Bean's fine guide to whipping and flogging and Lady Green's book on consensual spanking.

Striving to Please Her

Category: Sketches

An imaginary encounter of pleasing a dominant woman so that she would allow me to become her slave.

My First Time

Category: Miscellany

First Femdom encounter: a session with a kind Domme.

February 21, 2005

D/s and sleep

Category: Prior Relationship

Couples in even a part time BDSM relationship need enough sleep if they are going to play.

February 19, 2005


Category: D/s Practices

Psychological effects of male slave or master or mistress wearing a hood during D/s play.

February 18, 2005

S&M Dreams

Category: My Inner Life

On trying to remember sadomasochistic dreams.

February 16, 2005

Missed Cues

Category: Prior Relationship

In D/s relationships it is important to be able to spot the cues your owner is giving you.

February 13, 2005

No Matter How Unreasonable

Category: Cravings

Two Eric Stanton drawings showing a dominant woman taking complete control of a man.

February 12, 2005

On Not Fantasizing

Category: Cravings

I'd rather not indulge D/s fantasies while waiting for us to play in real life.

February 11, 2005

S&M without D/s?

Category: Pain

On being sadist and masochist without acting as Domme and slave.

Intense S&M

Category: Pain

On wanting my sadist to treat me brutally and cruelly.

February 7, 2005

Original & Quality

Category: About

Jane's Guide has kind words about the Down On My Knees male slave weblog.

Disparity of my D/s and Conventional Desires

Category: My Inner Life

Having my penis kicked arouses me so much that I can have an erection without taking Cialis.

Duration of Our BDSM Play

Category: D/s Practices

I lose track of time when acting as a male slave.

February 6, 2005

After Two Months

Category: Prior Relationship , Category: Worship & ecstasy

My first two months as a male slave.

Core Fantasy: Bondage

Category: Bondage , Category: D/s Practices

Being locked in a cage is this male slave's deepest bondage fantasy.

Unequal Dominant/Slavish Desires (A Follow-Up)

Category: Prior Relationship

Male slaves who want more D/s play than their Mistresses feels able to supply.

February 5, 2005

My Lady (Demarcations)

Category: D/s Practices

On varying BDSM Mistress/slave titles as a way of embodying different states of ownership.

Wearing Her Collar

Category: D/s Practices

My owner has honored her slave in buying him a collar to wear.

February 4, 2005

On Wanting More Than Her

Category: Prior Relationship

Fear that my masochistic cravings my damanged my mixed D/s, traditionally romantic relationship.

Creativity & Variety in D/s

Category: D/s Practices

Developing our Mistress, male slave relationship with creative and variety of play.


Category: Prior Relationship

Lack of clarity about informal power exchange rules.

February 3, 2005

Begging for Mercy

Category: Pain

When will my owner reduce me to begging for mercy.

Licking the Mud from Her Boots

Category: BDSM Play , Category: Humbling

My owner forced me to lick vile tasting mud from her boots.

Trapped in the Gates of Hell

Category: Genitorment , Category: Instruments

Being led by my owner by a leashed Gates of Hell.

February 1, 2005

Are Masochists Mentally Ill?

Category: Worship & ecstasy

The joy and beauty of being a male masochist.