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March 31, 2005

The Lash & the Spreader Bar

Category: Pain

Imagine your legs separated with a spreader bar. Your inner thighs and buttocks vulnerable as you are whipped.

Mystery of the Domme's legwear

Category: Miscellany

Can you tell me what this woman - from a drawing by Sardax - is wearing on her legs?

Bell Torture Collar

Category: Instruments

An infernal instrument that would faciliate sleep deprivation play.

March 30, 2005

Masochism: An Oxymoric Experience

Category: Cravings , Category: Pain

How does a masochist capture the love and hate of pain?

March 29, 2005


Category: Pain , Category: Prior Relationship

When is punishment erotic pleasure, when does it change behavior and do masochists need it?


Category: About

What sort of visitors does my Femdom weblog attract. Hits from Google and other search engines.

March 28, 2005

Rituals to enrich our relationship

Category: Prior Relationship , Category: Rules & Rituals

Would kissing her feet and kneeling before her add to our Femdom relationship?

Core Fantasy: Human Furniture

Category: D/s Practices

I want to be objectified as human furniture for my Goddess' use.

March 27, 2005

My Timidity

Category: My Inner Life

On how long it took for me to come to practice D/s and serve as a woman's slave.

Testicle Tapping

Category: Pain , Category: Reference , Category: Sketches

A short testicle torment sketch and pointer to a discussion of safe CBT.

March 26, 2005

24/7 D/s

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Femdom and other D/s lifestylers. Why I wouldn't enjoy being a slave 24/7.

March 25, 2005

Recreational Femdom

Category: My Inner Life , Category: Prior Relationship

I'm not cut out to be a lifestyle male slave. But becoming the property of my owner is still deeply fulfilling.

March 24, 2005

Dominance: Natural or Nothing?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Doesn't erotic dominance have to be natural. Can someone fake being a Domme or masochist?

Books About Female Dominance

Category: Reference

Claudia Varrin has written two books about being a dominant woman and Mistress Nan has published her memoirs of being a lifestyle Domme.

March 23, 2005

Genitorture, CBT

Category: Pain

A ramble on cock and ball torment.

My Personal D/s Idiolect

Category: My Inner Life

Establishing a BDSM vocabulary that really captures the particularities and nuances of my D/s experiences and avoiding stereotypes.

Japanese Dominas

Category: Miscellany

Are Japanese Dommes more cheerful and happy in D/s play than western mistresses?

March 22, 2005

Orgasm Denial

Category: Chastity , Category: Genitorment

Chastity belts and orgasm control seem to be very important to many Femdom relationships.

Flexible sexuality (and personal freedom)

Category: About , Category: My Inner Life

I'm male pansexual as well as a part-time slave with a transsexual Goddess.

March 21, 2005

Buying quirts, floggers and straps

Category: Instruments , Category: Pain

Just ordered a bunch of floggers and quirts for my Domme to whip me with.


Category: Miscellany

Making a man into a sissy, feminizing males strikes me as an oddly sexist aspect of Femdom.

Domina Alexandra

Category: Miscellany

Images of a transsexual Domina named Alexandra like my own Goddess.

March 20, 2005

Hunger, Need?

Category: Cravings , Category: Worship & ecstasy

I'm hungry to please my Goddes, I need to surrender to her totally.

Otherwordly Kingdom

Category: Miscellany

A few notes about OWK - the Other World Kingdom and Cruella.

Core Fantasy: Being Used

Category: Humbling

How humbling it would be to find yourself crawling on the ground pulling a woman in a carriage or cart.

March 19, 2005

Femdom: The Word

Category: Miscellany

Femdom may be short for female dominance but it has too many negative associations and implications.

Jack in the Pulpit

Category: Instruments , Category: Pain

Unusual whip by Madame Giggles.

March 18, 2005

Finding Objects for My Fantasies

Category: Instruments , Category: My Inner Life

Slowly I accumulated images of BDSM toys and pervertables.

March 16, 2005

Woman Worship: First Inklings

Category: My Inner Life

Beginnings of my desires to submit to women.

March 15, 2005

Masochism: Earliest Stirrings

Category: My Inner Life

A childhood whipping was the earliest sign of my masochism.

Time Without Her

Category: Prior Relationship

While the woman I worship is away I will offer speculations about the sources of my D/s desires.

March 8, 2005

Bondage Practice

Category: Bondage , Category: Instruments

Learning to use bondage toys like cuffs, straps, locks, panic snaps.

March 4, 2005

Posture Bar

Category: BDSM Play , Category: Instruments

The night my Goddess bound me with a posture bar and collar.