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April 30, 2005

Dominas ISO ... ?

Category: Miscellany

Quick note for a dominant woman who thinks she'd like to explore her sexuality and meet a possible slave, play partner online.

Penis Adornment

Category: Genitorment

Knickknack for decorating cocks.

Genital Stock

Category: Genitorment

Stock for confining the balls and cock.

April 28, 2005

Liberating Degradation

Category: My Inner Life

Being degraded and humiliated leave me relaxed and happy.

April 27, 2005

The Other Kind of Milking

Category: Chastity , Category: Genitorment

Enforced masturbation that continues long enough to cause penis pain.

Yikes! Spikes!

Category: Genitorment

Fancy some weights hanging from a spiked ball ring?

April 26, 2005


Category: About

I enjoy reader comments on my D/s weblog but know that many people may not feel like or be unable to post a response.

Penis Leashing

Category: Genitorment

Thinking about my desire to be led about controlled by a leash on my penis.

April 25, 2005

The Wrong Kind of Pain

Category: Miscellany

A sore back muscle is a reminder that bondage requires care and safety.

April 24, 2005

My Domina

Category: Prior Relationship

Images that capture the various nuances of the woman that I worship as my Goddess.

Old Fashioned Public Humiliation

Category: Instruments

You could make your slave wear a fetish pillory and silly hood at the next kink party the two of you attend.

Pinned to the floor

Category: Reference

Gallery of erotic art.

April 23, 2005

A Night Under Her Mattress

Category: My Inner Life , Category: Prior Relationship

She wants to sleep atop me while I spend a night bound under the mattress of our bed.

What is Pain Like for the Masochist?

Category: Pain

A masochist’s response to erotic pain is various and variable.

April 22, 2005

Humbled By the Palm of Her Hand

Category: Humbling

Is there anything more humiliating than having her slap you in the face?

Fetish, Fashion, Sex and Power

Category: Miscellany

Valerie Steele on the erotic power of objects, specifically clothing.

April 21, 2005

Pillory Table & D/s Eating Torment

Category: Extreme

Enforced light starvation, fasting to enhance BDSM scenes.

Chastity: A Speculation

Category: Chastity , Category: My Inner Life

She’s away, I’m alone: would enforced chastity boosted or worsened my mood?

Kneeling Beside the Toilet

Category: Humbling

Toilets, commodes, urinals have real symbolic power in D/s. And sometimes real uses.

April 20, 2005

The Finger PIllory

Category: Extreme

Antique punishment, torture device that bound the fingers.

An Experiment in Shoe Worship

Category: My Inner Life

The woman I worship is away so I try licking her empty shoes.

More Inexpensive D/s Slave Cage Ideas

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Reference

Plexiglas and PVC tubing are among the options for building an inexpensive cage for BDSM play.

April 19, 2005

Femdom & the Male Ego

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

In female dominant, male submissive relationships often the women see the man as nothing more than an ego and a penis.

Testicle Pillory

Category: Extreme

A pillory that holds a man's penis and testicles forcing him to stand upright.

April 18, 2005

Slave Clothes

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Being forced to wear tattered dirty clothes to reflect my status as a slave.

On Being Punched

Category: Extreme

Just another man who thinks about being beaten, hit by a woman.

April 17, 2005

Steel Head Cage

Category: Extreme

Metal head cage for giving your slave a unique sensory deprivation experience.

Caging the Human Slave Economically

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Reference

Can a pet cage be used for BDSM, or with a little inventive DIY maybe you can make your own D/s cage.

April 16, 2005

Confinement: Cages & Boxes

Category: Humbling , Category: Prior Relationship

That my Goddess would enjoy putting me in a cage or locking me in a box only makes me feel humble and grateful.

Life in the Box

Category: Extreme , Category: Sketches

Locked in a simple wooden box, I live only to clean her shoes when she offers them.

Just Her Boot Slave

Category: Sketches

Imagine being locked away. Left alone except when you are allowed to lick her boots.

April 15, 2005

Burning hot pokers and S&M play

Category: Pain

Have you wondered what it would be like to sit next to a fireplace while hot pokers were pressed into your skin?

Now at Dreamhost

Category: About

I've moved by BDSM webite, blog to Dreamhost.

Cattle prods and S&M

Category: Electro-play , Category: Instruments

Electro-torture, electro-torment risks in BDSM play.

April 14, 2005

Shiny, shiny, shiny boots of leather

Category: Cravings

On my adoration of my Goddess' boots, shoes and feet.

Cages and Degredation

Category: Humbling

Male slaves who need to be degraded and locked in cages.

Free F/m Fiction

Category: Reference

Websites with free Femdom stories.

Slave Shock Prod

Category: Instruments

She wants to use an electric animal control shock prod on me.

April 13, 2005

My Mood

Category: My Inner Life

With my Domme away my fantasy life becomes extreme. And how to reinforce the desire to surrender to her?

Nipple Clamps and Clothespins

Category: Instruments

Erotic torture using nipple clamps and clothespins, which, of course can be used on all poritons of the body including the genitals.

Carbon Dioxide Suppositories

Category: Instruments

Using CO2 for enemas.

April 12, 2005

No F/m Neck Corsets?

Category: Instruments

Where are the submissive men who are put in neck corsets by dominant women?

April 11, 2005

Bitten By the Teeth of Kali

Category: Genitorment , Category: Instruments

Male chastity device with teeth: an erection causes pain.

April 10, 2005

How to Woo a Domme Online

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

My suggestions for writing to and talking with dominant women online if you are trying to use the web to meet a Domme.

April 9, 2005

Strike, Dear Mistress, and Cure His Heart

Category: Pain , Category: Prior Relationship

Male masochist craves pain so harsh that he begs her to stop beating him.

The Beauty of Shoe Worship

Category: Prior Relationship

I went into a fugue or trance thinking about her shoes.

You Mean They Fake Bondage & S&M?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Many BDSM photos and movies are carefully edited and the torture you think you see never really happened.

Taylor Hammer Torture

Category: Extreme

Having a Taylor Hammer used to thwart my relexes and leave me unable to walk, keeping me down on my knees.

From Claws to Stiletto Heels

Category: Miscellany

From caveman to Femdom Goddess.

April 8, 2005

Domestic Discipline?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Punishment & Discipline , Category: Rules & Rituals

My own feelings for woman worship do not include anything as pedestrian as domestic discipline punishment.

April 7, 2005

BDSM Software

Category: Reference

Not only is there BDSM hardware there are at least a few D/s software programs available for download around the web.

April 6, 2005

Bluetooth BDSM

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Electro-play , Category: Instruments

Imagine using wireless sex toys and BDSM software to manipulate your slave at a distance.

Of Hygiene and Canes

Category: Punishment & Discipline , Category: Sketches

She gives me a session with the canes to teach me to be clean and to take care of my health.

April 5, 2005

My Goddess Isn't My Therapist

Category: My Inner Life

Being punished, being controlled relaxes me, helps me cope with stress. But D/s isn't therapy.

Quirky Quirts

Category: Instruments

The leather whips and quirts I bought for my Goddess to use on me when she returns home.

Cock Ring FAQs

Category: Genitorment , Category: Reference

List of websites that off advice on selecting, buying and using a cock ring.

I Guess I Must Be a Submissive Pet

Category: Miscellany

Submission, slave tests say I'm a submissive animal. True enough though onlin quizzes are pretty silly.

Lady Myles & Domme Depot

Category: Miscellany

A happy Domme thinks of all she might like to buy from Home Depot to build BDSM furniture.

April 4, 2005

Submission as a Gift?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Prior Relationship

Submission and dominance: are they gifts to be given, or innate qualities to be shared?

On Having a UPC Barcode ...

Category: Miscellany

On registering myself as a male slave with The Slave Registry.

April 3, 2005

Sensory Deprivation

Category: Cravings

Imagine your Domme has you bound, gagged. She puts a device on you that flashes lights before your eyes and music in your ears. Perhaps she spices it up with electrotorture.

April 2, 2005

Choosing a Hairbrush for Spankings

Category: Instruments , Category: Punishment & Discipline

Femdom: I want my girlfriend to spank me with a hairbrush but how do a choose a good brush for her to use on my butt?

If Only We Could Get Femdom Strapon Stuff Out of Google

Category: Miscellany

Pity the trampling and strapon websites make it hard to search for useufl information on Femdom relationships.

Erotic Caning : a Two-phase Sensation

Category: Instruments

The unique pains and artistry of erotic caning at the hands of a talented sadist.

April 1, 2005

D/s and Human Pets

Category: D/s Practices , Category: Rules & Rituals

Male slave ponders the various ways in which a Mistress can turn a man into a mere human pet.

Venus in Furs

Category: Reference

Femdom song lyrics about being whipped and worshipping a woman's boots.

How to Beat, Whip, Spank &etc. Your Slave

Category: Punishment & Discipline , Category: Reference

Guides and how to engage in erotic whippings, BDSM spankings and canings.

Electric Slave Goad

Category: Electro-play , Category: Instruments

Imagine your Owner stabbing you with an electric slave goad to keep you in line or to punish you.

Do-it-yourself S&M projects and pervertables

Category: Instruments , Category: Reference

Do it yourself BDSM equipment and converting common items from grocery and drug stores into sex toys for D/s play.

Masochist gone mad?

Category: Instruments

Bought a Rattan Carcass Beater from Adam and Gillian's whips and toys website.