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May 31, 2005

Fetishes: G

Category: Fetish

Kinky play from gags to golden showers.

Fetishes: F

Category: Fetish

Slave questionnaire letter F: from face slapping to foot worship.

Fetishes: E

Category: Fetish

Kinky cravings including electrotorture.

Fetishes: D

Category: Fetish

Checklist D: from dental braces to eating from dog food bowls.

Fetishes: About the Checklist

Category: About , Category: Fetish

The list of BDSM desires and limits was just one way we communicated online.

The Sounds of Pain and Pleasure . . .

Category: Miscellany

BDSM audio can have more emotional power than film clips.

May 30, 2005

Fetishes: C

Category: Fetish

Ways she might torment me beginning with the letter C: cages to cuffs.

On Self Doubt

Category: My Inner Life

BDSM: imagination vs. reality, What am I really capable of enduring?

Fetishes: B

Category: Fetish

Kinky cravings starting with the letter B: ball crushing to bruising.

The Gap

Category: Prior Relationship

She has an object crushing fetish, I don't but wish I did so I could please her.

May 29, 2005

Fetishes: A

Category: Fetish

Slave checklist begins with the letter A: abrasion and anal plugs.

Make Your Own Teeth of Kali Bracelet

Category: Genitorment , Category: Instruments

DIY guide to making a severe male chastity device.

Surrendering My Bladder

Category: D/s Practices

She controls when I can or can't urinate.

May 28, 2005

Wireless Anal Pervert

Category: Instruments

Novel approaches to F/m anal play.

Oh, please do it to me!

Category: Pain

Sometimes my masochism dims only to return.

About Me

Category: About

I'd lover her even without D/s.

May 27, 2005

Playful But Dominant

Category: Prior Relationship

The sweet, loving side of F/m D/s.

Urethral Amplification

Category: Electro-play , Category: Instruments

21st Century electro-sex toys.


Category: About

Weblog of a male slave appears in Fleshbot sex blog roundup.

May 26, 2005

F/m Forums

Category: Reference

Online communities focusing on women dominating men.

More responses to art

Category: My Inner Life

How our fetishes and anti-fetishes shape our individual reactions.

Stilletto Heel In the Shape of a Man

Category: BDSM News

Fetishistic boots at an aesthetics of exhibition on the aesthetics of women's clothing.

May 25, 2005

The Cruel Girl

Category: Miscellany

The young woman who tried to humilate me in high school.

Vulgar Fantasy

Category: My Inner Life

Female dominance is about more than the beauty of the woman.

May 24, 2005

S&M vs. or plus D/s . . . ?

Category: Prior Relationship

What do I need most as a slave: pain or submission?

Possible Origin of My Slave Needs

Category: My Inner Life

Does my submissive come from my childish love of my mother?


Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Female supremacy is just plain silly.

May 23, 2005

The Joy of Consensual Nonconsensual

Category: Worship & ecstasy

Happiness in forgetting that you have a right to refuse.

More Retifism (my favorite Paraphilia)

Category: Cravings

On the joy of being a foot worshipper and boot slave.

Prickly Penis Toy

Category: Genitorment , Category: Instruments

Many cbt toys are too small for a guy who larger than average.

May 22, 2005

Washing His Mouth Out With Soap?

Category: D/s Practices

If I don't like the idea why is it in my mind?

Some of Her Footwear

Category: Prior Relationship

I have a boot, shoe worship paraphilia: retifism. And she has lots of boots and shoes.

May 21, 2005

Ask Me Anything

Category: My Inner Life

Femdom thinking: quiz a woman worshipping male slave.

Dear Reader, Who Are You?

Category: Miscellany

Invitation of my D/s weblog's readers to share their stories.

Safe Electroplay Toy

Category: Electro-play , Category: Instruments

Electric device designed for erotic BDSM play, scenes and sessions.

May 20, 2005

Affectionate Torment

Category: Sketches

Bound to the bed as she lovingly teases and tortures me.

May 19, 2005

Silly me . . .

Category: My Inner Life

Thinking about intentional neglect and scheduled whippings.

May 18, 2005

Not Always On My Knees

Category: My Inner Life

I love her in so very many ways.

May 17, 2005

Urophilia, urolagnia

Category: D/s Practices , Category: Extreme

F/m erotic urine play.

Bondage wishes, hopes and dreams

Category: Bondage , Category: D/s Practices , Category: Humbling

On my need to be tied, bound, restrained.

May 16, 2005


Category: Electro-play

Electrical insect killer and BDSM toy.

Master arrested for forced labor, aggravated sexual assault

Category: BDSM News

Glenn Marcus - did he practice nonconsensual BDSM?

She's Coming Back!

Category: Prior Relationship

The woman I love and worship returns.

May 15, 2005

Penis Crushing

Category: Genitorment

Nothing makes her happier than pressing down on me with her boots.

May 14, 2005

Rimba TENS Unit I

Category: Electro-play

Timid, initial exploration of erotic electrical stimulation.

May 13, 2005

Casual Meditation on Enforced Chastity

Category: Chastity

Is enforced male chastity, orgasm denial really phallocentric?

May 12, 2005

On Penis Restriction

Category: Genitorment

A look at a Pin Prick Cock Sheath, ClubFem's Male Chastity Device and the Locking Cock Cage.

May 11, 2005

On Being Kicked

Category: Pain

In my masochistic heart being kicked ? yes, I know it is dangerous ? evokes much of the same thrill as being whipped.

May 10, 2005

D/s as Chivalry

Category: Prior Relationship

Details about our relationship. Maybe F/m BDSM is a mutated form of chivalry.

Milking the Male

Category: Chastity , Category: Genitorment

Prostate manipulation, exhaustion as a part of enforced chastity or orgasm denial play.

May 9, 2005

Responses to art

Category: My Inner Life , Category: Prior Relationship

My Domina's own responses have changed my own feelings about various F/m illustrations.

May 8, 2005

Fear and Uncertainty

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Can random cruelty be incorporated safely into BDSM play?

May 7, 2005

Females spanking males

Category: Punishment & Discipline

The role of pain and punishment in relationships that include female dominance as erotic play.

May 6, 2005

The Heartrending Power of Spit

Category: Humbling

Female on male spitting: humiliating, degrading: a humbling treasure beyond measure.

May 5, 2005

Erotic Fear and Breath Control

Category: D/s Practices

Being bound to a wheel by a woman, having my breathing controlled and fear.

Testicle Leashing: Instant Omnipotence

Category: Genitorment

Having your balls under someone else's controls is the most humbling, humiliating experience I can think of as a man.

May 4, 2005

Strap-on Romance

Category: Miscellany

The prostate gland enable heterosexual men to enjoy being bottoms in anal sex with women on top.

May 3, 2005

Goodbye Personal Pronouns

Category: Humbling

My Goddess has decided that I will only be able to refer to myself as her property.

Dental Mouth Gags

Category: Extreme , Category: Instruments

Imagine being unable to close your mouth.

May 2, 2005

Whimsical BDSM?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Is playfulness incompatible with D/s? Can sadomasochism mix laughter with the pain?

May 1, 2005

Analingus Appliances

Category: Instruments

Rimming chairs, smothering boxes, queening stools, joy riders: they are all pretty expensive.