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December 31, 2005

A New Year's Resolution for Submissive Men

Category: Miscellany

Male masochists would have better luck meeting a Domme if they really tried to. And did it sanely and respectfully.

Dom/mes Rights

Category: Reference

A Domme's or Dom's privileges within D/s and BDSM relationships.

December 30, 2005

Morning Greeting

Category: Rules & Rituals

At the beginning of each day the slave beg his owner to be his master or misstress.

Male Milking : Keeping it Healthy

Category: Chastity

D/s orgasm denial, enforced chastity may encourage prostate cancer unless the male slave is milked often enough.

December 29, 2005

D/s & Begging: Theory & Practice

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Some slaves feel inhibited when their mistress or master wants them to beg. A few insights from dominant and submissive men and women.

December 28, 2005

Still Striving to Learn How to Beg

Category: Worship & ecstasy

A male slave seeks to offer complete submission without seeming to be a pest.

Kinky Yoga?

Category: Miscellany

Can Yoga routines be incorporated into BDSM play?

December 27, 2005

What Dominant Women Look For

Category: Reference

Many men wanting a Femdom relationship don't understand what most Dommes seek in a man.

Images of Retifism

Category: My Inner Life

Drawings of men who worship boots, shoes and feet.

D/s: The One True Way

Category: Reference

Dominants and slaves who think they know the only right way to conduct BDSM relationships.

December 26, 2005

Rules for Voluntary Slaves

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Rules & Rituals

Ten precepts or guidelines for slaves in consensual BDSM, D/s relationships. Your thoughts invited.

Desideratum from F/m Artwork

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Why don't Femdom illustrations show the men enjoying, happy with their enslavement to a woman?

December 25, 2005

Her Christmas Present

Category: Prior Relationship

I bought my Goddess a pair of bright shiny silver boots.

Trying to Get Rid of an Unwanted Guest

Category: Prior Relationship

I licked my Domme's boots one night hoping to drive away my unwanted ex-lover.

A Slave's Path No More

Category: F/m Weblogs

Aspirant's femdom diary of his life with the woman he calls Master comes to an end.

Pin-up Dominatrices

Category: S&M Fantasies

Stereotypical and clichéd images of dominant women: the persona matters more than conventional surface beauty.

December 24, 2005

Chastity Belts for the Masses

Category: Chastity

D/s chastity belt use, reviews and trades.


Category: Miscellany

GIFs of F/m punishment scenes.

Male Masturbation Under Female Guidance

Category: F/m Weblogs

Male masturbatory addiction and female domination.

December 21, 2005

Wanting to be Punished

Category: Cravings

The masochistic desire to suffer for failings and flaws real or imaginary.

December 19, 2005

BDSM Voluntary Slavery Contracts

Category: Reference

Written agreements for D/s couples seeking to define and confirm their ownership and surrender.

Merry Christmas

Category: Miscellany

F/m Christmas card.

December 18, 2005

Shades of Submissive & Slave Needs

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

BDSM submissive men and women have a range of needs and desires they wish to act out with their dominants. Which are you?

December 17, 2005

Sissification Gone Mad

Category: F/m Weblogs

Male slave wanted to be made to wear a dress and visit his family's Christmas dinner.

The Case of Empress M

Category: BDSM News

Michelle Silva owner of BDSM video website in Enfield, CT has her computers seized by police department.

December 15, 2005

Kneeling In the Corner

Category: Humbling

F/m punishment: left alone in a corner, staring at yourself in a mirror.

Slave Training

Category: Rules & Rituals

Male slave rituals, training procedures, submissive protocols for those in D/s relationships.

December 13, 2005

Man Invited to Lick Feet Bites Toe

Category: BDSM News

Man spills beer on woman's feet and is told to lick them clean.

Fantasies ... Fantasies ...

Category: Cravings

Trying to manage my Femdom fantasy life.

December 12, 2005

Kinky Fiction

Category: Reference

Femdom, Maledom fetish and BDSM stories.

December 11, 2005


Category: Humbling

The slavish craving to be treated as an object, humbled with your own unimportance in your master or mistress's eyes.

December 10, 2005

Humiliation Play : Share Your Pleasures

Category: Humbling

In a Femdom context: which degrading acts do you enjoy inflicting or being subjected to.

Electroplay Toys

Category: Electro-play

Battery-powered fun for sadists to employ on their slaves and masochists.

December 8, 2005

Franco's Art of Domestic Discipline

Category: Punishment & Discipline

Firm older women administering over the knee spankings to naughty younger men.

December 7, 2005

Living for Moments of Submission

Category: Prior Relationship

Defining my masculine surrender to a female dominant.

An Evil Angel

Category: F/m Weblogs

Blog by a female sadist and master.

December 6, 2005

Defining Domme

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Definition: dominant woman, often in a Femdom or female led relationship who enjoys D/s, BDSM and S&M.

Missing My Beloved

Category: Prior Relationship

Romantic longing and hunger for surrender while the transgendered goddess I love and worship is away.

December 3, 2005

BDSM & Stress

Category: Prior Relationship

D/s relationships may falter, temporarily fail when one or both partners experience frustration.

December 2, 2005

Quarter-million Dollars in Dominatrix Fees

Category: BDSM News

Man steals money to pay Lady Sage for kinky BDSM sessions.

ProDomme vs. Indianapolis

Category: BDSM News

Melyssa Donaghy, professional dominatrix, fights city officals over zoning laws.

Famous Foot Fetishists

Category: Reference

Celebrated literary men who worshipped women's boots, shoes and feet.