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January 31, 2006


Category: Emotional Health

Recovering from an intense S&M session or D/s scene, tending to each partner's needs after BDSM play.

About the Writer

Category: About

Personal history and context of a man who maintains a Femdom website, weblog.

January 30, 2006

That Stubborn Penis Plug

Category: Chastity , Category: F/m Weblogs

Mistress and slave write about inserting his chastity belt penis plug.

Are Femdom Relationships Male-Centric?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Are F/m relationships controlled by the male in his search for satisfaction. Are Femdom relationships really male-led?

January 29, 2006

D/s Webcomic

Category: Entertainments

Episode of an online BDSM comic strip featuring a Mistress collaring her slave.

January 28, 2006

The Romantic Fetishist

Category: Emotional Health

The person of the dominant is more important than the fetish object she or he may be wearing.

January 27, 2006

F/m Stereotypes

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Are male submissives responsible for the clichéd images of Femdom love affairs and relationships you find on the internet?

January 25, 2006

Midori On the Good Domme

Category: Emotional Health

Her power over her slave begets an awe at the wonders she works as she calls forth his submission.

Wild Side Sex

Category: D/s Practices

Midor's examination of fetish, S&M, D/s, sadomasochism and kink life.

January 24, 2006

Sexism and Male Submission?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Do men who want female-led relationships, dominance have sexist attitudes?

January 22, 2006

Bad Manners

Category: F/m Weblogs

Submissive men who leave rude, unkind comments on Femdom blogs.

The Pretty, Pervy Band-Aid Called D/s

Category: Emotional Health

D/s relationships will not solve all of life's problems, cure your emotional ills.

January 21, 2006

Erotic Humiliation

Category: Emotional Health , Category: Humbling

Emotional sadomasochism can be satisfying but tricky. You may humiliate your partner but you must never harm his ego or heart.

Uncomprehending Readers

Category: F/m Weblogs

People tell my beloved Goddess that she abuses me when I act as her male slave.


Category: Fetish

Psychological disorder of having no kinks, fetishes or paraphilias. Very boring sexuality, dull erotic life.

January 20, 2006

A Few Special Evenings

Category: Prior Relationship

Intense D/s and S&M sessions with the woman that I love and worship.

Disciplining a Submissive Husband

Category: F/m Weblogs

How his Mistress who is also his wife punishes him.

January 19, 2006

Pleasing Me (Finally)

Category: Cravings

A list of some of my strongest unsatisfied desires as a male slave masochist.

He's Given Her Complete Control of His Sex Life

Category: F/m Weblogs

A male sub locked in a CB-3000 writes about orgasm denial and enforced chastity.

Rimba TENS Unit : Too Weak?

Category: Electro-play

Is it worthless for sadomasochistic electrical CBT, genital torture?

January 18, 2006

Pleasing Myself II

Category: Prior Relationship

My basic need to submit to her leaves me unable to focus on my deepest fetishes.

But One of Many Slaves

Category: F/m Weblogs

Autobiographical blog about the submissives and slaves attached to a ProDomme.

F/m Fiction

Category: Reference

Websites with Femdom S&M stories.

January 17, 2006

Abusive Domme?

Category: Prior Relationship

Some D/s, S&M relationships can be abusive. My BDSM relationship is not.

Electric Toothbrush + Penis

Category: Genitorment

A mechanical means of milking a man for tease and orgasm denial torment.

Mistress Lauren M

Category: BDSM News

Professional Dominatrix's client died while waiting tied to a torture rack in her dungeon.

January 16, 2006

Her Bored Slave

Category: Prior Relationship

Coping with, trying to prevent boredom during certain acts in my F/m relationship.

Do Dommes Want Sissies?

Category: D/s Practices

Do dominant women always want a man they can feminize? Is sissyfication always a part of F/m relationships?

January 15, 2006

Midnight Longings

Category: Worship & ecstasy

On the sheer pleasure of worshipful surrender to her in my F/m relationship.

January 14, 2006

Midnight Doubts

Category: My Inner Life

Temporary loss, lapse of BDSM, D/s, S&M desires.

January 13, 2006

Pleasing Us

Category: Prior Relationship

Learning to enjoy submission outside of explicit BDSM play scenes with my girlfriend and Goddess.

Pleasing Myself

Category: Prior Relationship

One slave's, masochist's wishlist of what he'd love for his Domme to do to him.

Pleasing Her : Trample

Category: Prior Relationship

I was a bit scared of, worried by her interest in trampling fetish.

January 12, 2006

Pleasing Her : Object Crushing

Category: Prior Relationship

I love my beloved Goddess but am unable to enjoy watching her stomp on things.

Why Do We Need to Feel Helpless?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Psychological etiology of the submissive man’s desire to surrender and be controlled by a dominant.

Testicle Torture: Guidance

Category: Genitorment

BDSM ball torment help and FAQs.

January 11, 2006

Pleasing Her

Category: Prior Relationship

Improving my D/s romance by learning how to live my dominant's fantasies, kinks and fetishes.

Why Do We Need Bondage?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Bondage

Seeking to understand the submissive, slavish need for cuffs, collars and chains.

Women Spanking Men

Category: Punishment & Discipline

F/m corporal punishment stories: do you have an experience or fantasy to share?

January 10, 2006

A Handbook for Submissive Men?

Category: Rules & Rituals

Rule book, guidebook for male slaves to help them structure the submissive part of their life with the partner that owns and rules him.

Testicle Torments

Category: Genitorment

Ball stretching, testicle whipping, inserting rods and wands in the penis.

A Metal Collar About My Throat

Category: Humbling

D/s: what could capture willing slavery than a metal band locked around your neck, denoting that you are your owner’s property?

January 9, 2006

Do You Want to Be Remade?

Category: Humbling

Men who hope Domme's will rebuild, restructure, change their personality, mind and heart.

F/m Games

Category: Reference

Domme outlines a scenario for long-term D/s play with her huband or boyfriend.

January 8, 2006


Category: My Inner Life

Slavish emotional, mental responses to D/s and BDSM that exceed physiological male orgasms.

January 7, 2006

Masculinity, Ideology & Woman Worship

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Femdom relationships aren't politics, sociology or an attack on manliness are they?

Discrimination Against BDSM Orientation

Category: BDSM News

Human Rights Tribunal investigates the case of Peter Hayes, a Gorean D/s master refused license by Vancouver Police Department.

Punched in the Face

Category: S&M Fantasies

Of the masochistic desire for a sadist to leave me with a black eye and busted lips.

January 6, 2006

On Being Broken

Category: Cravings

On the slavish desire to be hurt until your body, mind and mouth begs for mercy.

Slave Vocabulary Game

Category: Rules & Rituals

Verbal protocols, speech restriction in D/s and BDSM play.

January 5, 2006

But Honestly ...

Category: Prior Relationship

Fears of wanting more domination and punishment than my beloved partner wishes to inflict on me.

Fantasies : Unlikely & Impossible

Category: S&M Fantasies

Examining the mental health implications of masochistic men who have extreme fantasies of sadistic treatment.


Category: My Inner Life

Sublimating masochistic cravings, desires by writing about them in my blog.

Human Draft Animal

Category: Extreme

BDSM: a week as a farm slave - working the field, sleeping in a barn.

January 4, 2006

Attitude Adjustment : Coda

Category: S&M Fantasies , Category: Sketches

A sequences of sketches exploring BDSM ritual male slave training and conditioning routines.

Attitude Adjustment V

Category: Sketches

D/s: a lesson in becoming a proper, true male slave and pleasing my owner.

Attitude Adjustment IV

Category: Sketches

D/S male slave conditioning with my new master, mistress, owner.

Attitude Adjustment III

Category: Sketches

D/s traing: being made to work, being fed and watered by my owner.

Attitude Adjustment II

Category: Sketches

A male slave's owner leaves him alone and locked up for the first night.

Attitude Adjustment I

Category: Sketches

Strict BDSM slave conditioning story. Part 1.

January 3, 2006

Are BDSM Relationships More Honest?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Are F/m couples forced to be more open and trustworthy than men and women in vanilla relationships?

What Folks Are Looking For

Category: About

F/m website statistics: search engine queries.

Innovations in Penis Bondage

Category: Bondage , Category: Genitorment , Category: Instruments

Chastity cock rings and wrist to genitals bondage devices.

The Persecution of Michelle Silva

Category: BDSM News

BDSM website operator Empress M harassed by local Enfield Connecticut police, left in poverty.

January 2, 2006

The Church of My Owner

Category: Rules & Rituals , Category: Sketches , Category: Worship & ecstasy

Ritual worship of mistress or master in a D/s relationship. A ceremony where a male slave treats his owner as Goddess or God in prayer.

Note on Boot Worship

Category: Worship & ecstasy

Why F/m foot, shoe, boot adoration is so joyful.

January 1, 2006

Male Slave Checklist

Category: Fetish , Category: Reference

Femdom checklist for men approaching and trying to meet, date dominant women online.

Femdom Foot Fetish Forums

Category: F/m Weblogs

F/m boot, shoe, foot worship and adoration community.