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February 28, 2006

Chastity as a Means of Emotional Recovery

Category: Chastity , Category: Emotional Health

Sexual recovery, psychological healing from an orgasm denial program.

Mostly Pervertable

Category: Reference

Canes made from rose stems and other things that can't be bent into BDSM toys.

Night Thoughts

Category: S&M Fantasies

I love her but also enjoy thinking of the woman I love as a pitiless Domina.

It’s All Legal

Category: Stories By Others

Science fiction D/s story about human beings living as pets.

February 27, 2006

Exploring Orgasm Denial

Category: Chastity , Category: Humbling , Category: Worship & ecstasy

Exploring enforced chastity to deepen my submission to the woman that I love and worship.

Under Her Thumb

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Gynarchy, female supremacy, superiority, matriarchy: foolish ideology, bad sociology, wicked politics and a way to make money from submissive and masochistic men.

When BDSM Becomes Abuse

Category: BDSM News

Berta Jean Webb's slave/Master relationship: emotional pain and physical torment.

Erotic Hypnosis and D/s ... ?

Category: D/s Practices

Mental imagery, ritual phrases to trigger the submissive state.

Have an Icy Hot Time

Category: Genitorment

How it can be used for penis and scrotum torment.

February 26, 2006

Asking for Permission to Beg

Category: Humbling

Requesting permission to adore and lick her boots.

Let Us Review Your S&M Toy or Bondage Device

Category: Instruments

Sadist and masochist willing to test and report on BDSM appliances and sadomasochistic paraphernalia.

February 25, 2006

Websites for Submissive Men

Category: Reference

And dominant women where you can ask questions, talk, overcome guilt. Femdom discussion groups and forums.


Category: My Inner Life

My ability to sustain a slavish mind set varies with the days, outside events and my own internal complexity.

Preposterous CBT IV

Category: Genitorment

Foreskin leashing: being led by nipple clamps or similar clips attached to a man's foreskin.

February 24, 2006

Pam Grier

Category: Entertainments

Actress is an examplary sample of a pop culture portrayal of a strong, confident, capable woman.

Stories By Others

Category: Stories By Others

Female domination fiction sent in by contributors.

February 23, 2006

2: Horse Of A Different Color

Category: Stories By Others

Man is made to live as a human horse and slave for the rest of his life.

1: Horse Of A Different Color

Category: Stories By Others

Story of a man living as a woman's permanent full-time human pet.

February 22, 2006

A Few Words of Thanks

Category: F/m Weblogs

Helpful, kind dominant women who have given me advice on BDSM and F/m relationships.

The Pet, the Slave Needs His Owner

Category: My Inner Life

Without the dominant, submission, slavery has no emotional value, no pleasure, no satisfaction.

February 21, 2006

A Masochist's Submission

Category: Cravings

I need for her to be a sadist, but her sadism has power only when it gives her pleasure and I am under her control.


Category: Reference

Internet discussion groups for masochists, sadists, dominants, submissives seeking advice and information.

February 20, 2006

Pervertables that Bite : Clips & Clamps

Category: Instruments

Nipple torment, cbt using common clips, clamps and other objects that pinch and grab skin.

February 19, 2006

Chemical CBT

Category: Genitorment , Category: Reference

A reference to cock and ball torment using creams, liniments, ointments and spicy hot peppers.

Boundaries & Limits

Category: My Inner Life

BDSM play outside of scenes and scenarios: how a couple can try this without damaging their love for each other.

Incompetent Dominant?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

What if a slave willingly chose an inept, silly master or mistress because serving such a one would be horribly humiliating?

February 18, 2006

Foreskin Confinement

Category: Chastity

Orgasm denial and enforced chastity devices and techniques for the uncircumcised male. Are there such specialties for the uncut penis?

February 17, 2006

Laughter & Humiliation ... ?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

How does a dominant act when an attempt at humiliation or degredation causes the submissive partner to laugh and giggle?

Financial Masochism

Category: F/m Weblogs

A look at consensual blackmail, monetary slavery with female money sadists.

February 15, 2006

Contractual Obligations

Category: Prior Relationship

Is it time to add a formal contract to my D/s relationship with my dominant?

Enforced Chastity Inexpensively

Category: Chastity

A written label may work for inexpensive orgasm denial play.

My First and Likely Last Limerick

Category: Miscellany

A silly bit about worshipping a Domme's boots.

February 14, 2006

Her Consensual Slavery Contract

Category: BDSM News

A woman, Berta Jean Webb assaulted by Terry L. Meyer who called himself her Master.

No Safeword

Category: D/s Practices

By choosing to not have one I've created a situation where begging for mercy will end the scene.

February 13, 2006

The Femdom Police

Category: F/m Weblogs

Rude, boorish men who post comments on F/m blogs, online journals and diaries.

February 12, 2006

A Dozen Roses

Category: Prior Relationship

On the joy of a romantic F/m BDSM love affair.

February 11, 2006

Abusing People is Fun

Category: Entertainments

A revolting sadomasochistic horror movie from Japan.

Ideal Slave

Category: Cravings , Category: Wishing Games

What qualities to you hope to find in a submissive man or woman, someone who might serve as your slave?

Ideal Dominant

Category: Cravings , Category: Wishing Games

Tell me your image, idea of the perfect Domme, Dom, Mistress or Master.

Favorite Fetish or Kink

Category: Fetish

What act, part of BDSM gives you the most pleasure, makes you the happiest?

Your Favorite BDSM Toy?

Category: Instruments

Sadist or masochist: tell me which sadomasochistic device excites you the most.

February 10, 2006

Your Deepest Fantasy

Category: S&M Fantasies

Dominant or submissive person: what D/s act have you yet to experience that exictes you the most strongly?

February 8, 2006

Report from the Silly Slave Mind

Category: My Inner Life

Strong pure cravings to submit to the woman who is my Goddess and Owner.

Sweet Cruelty

Category: Sketches

Woman teases, pinches, slaps and scratches a helplessly bound man.

February 7, 2006

Communication & Honesty

Category: Emotional Health

The submissive, slave must speak the truth to the dominant, master or mistress.

New Seduction

Category: Entertainments

Erotic thriller with a professional dominatrix as the protagonist.


Category: Chastity

Self-imposed orgasm denial keeps me from getting enough sleep.

February 6, 2006

Caged Penis: Afterthoughts

Category: Chastity

Psychological effects of chastity play with the woman that I love and worship.

Caged Penis: Me in Chastity?

Category: Chastity

An exploration of orgasm denial in a female dominant, male submissive relationship.

Caged Penis: Moderation

Category: Chastity

Will I be one of those male slaves who finds orgasm denial easy to accept?

Caged Penis: On the Web

Category: Chastity

Some Femdom sites paint an ugly, sad image of orgasm denial. In others men share their pleasure in enforced chastity.

Caged Penis: Stallion Guard

Category: Chastity

An inexpensive effective male chastity device. A leather cock cage that confines the penis and prevent erections.

February 5, 2006

Tiredness & BDSM

Category: My Inner Life

Hard to feel submissive and engage in D/s when you are weary.

On My Fragility

Category: Prior Relationship

The best D/s relationships involve deep empathy, understanding and love.

Lady Heather on CSI

Category: Entertainments

Professional dominatrix on CSI: Crime Scene Investigation played by Melinda Clarke.

Bratty Bottoms

Category: D/s Practices

Implications and nuances of certain terms and words as they are used in BDSM.

February 4, 2006

Submission vs. Surrender

Category: My Inner Life

Evolving your own private, personal BDSM vocabularly that captures your needs and desires.

February 3, 2006

Your Sexual & Affectional Orientation

Category: About

Comments from lesbians, gay males, heterosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals involved in BDSM, D/s and S&M are welcome here.

The Pleasure of Pleasing

Category: Prior Relationship

A human pet's delight that an unasked for act of submission makes his Goddess happy.

Girls Are For Loving

Category: Entertainments

An old sexploitation movie that might be fun for men who enjoy sexual tease and denial scenarios.

Nonphysical Punishment

Category: F/m Weblogs

Using emotions, restrictions and needs to discipline a submissive male.

February 2, 2006

Happily Needy

Category: Worship & ecstasy

How good the desire to be submissive to her can feel.

Five Long Months

Category: Prior Relationship

The emotional stresses and strains of a long distance BDSM relationship.

Dominatrix Misaki Saiki

Category: Entertainments

February 1, 2006

Thirst & Pain

Category: Emotional Health

A component for sadists to evaluate during sessions with masochists.

Masochist's Erections

Category: Emotional Health

Should a dominant expect a male submissive's penis to remain hard during S&M play?