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March 31, 2006

I Miss My Collar

Category: Prior Relationship

I'm happy to be her slave, to just offer myself, not even demanding that she dominate me.

Boy On a Leash

Category: Miscellany

Femdom imagery doesn't always have to show nasty, cruel sadists.

Pet vs. Animal

Category: My Inner Life

Imagining being her puppy or draft animal. Loved or used as she wishes.

A Happy Couple

Category: Miscellany

F/m relationship: male human pet adorings his radiant, happy Goddess.

Kneeling and Whipped

Category: S&M Fantasies

An evening of bondage and corporal punishment at the hands of my lover.

The Perfect Image of Woman Worship

Category: My Inner Life

An ideal Femdom illustration of a male slave adoring a woman as a Goddess.

March 30, 2006

$11,000 for Lady Sage

Category: BDSM News

Through The Looking Glass, an online company run by an Ohio-based ProDomme, Lady Sage.

March 28, 2006

Clarity and Communication

Category: Emotional Health

BDSM friendships and love affairs require honesty, openness and conversation.

The Joy of Her Boots

Category: BDSM Play , Category: Prior Relationship

Pleasure of retifism: happily worshipping her boots late one night.

March 27, 2006

Still Kinkless

Category: Prior Relationship

Overcoming inhibitions, mental blocks preventing us from resuming D/s and S&M play in our relationship.

March 26, 2006

How I Got Started in Nipple Torture

Category: Questions & Observations by Others

Experiences of a man who cannot orgasm without nipple torment.

March 23, 2006

Fake, Phony, Bogus Slaves

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

BDSM profiles and personal ads by sadists, masochists, masters and misstresses and D/s self-knowledge and understanding.

March 22, 2006

Kissing Her Shoes

Category: Prior Relationship

Loving, romantic retifism as my lips and tongue caress a lovely pair of schoolgirl shoes designed for young girls

March 21, 2006


Category: Emotional Health

D/s relationships: are you a service-oriented slave or a masochist who needs punishment and confinement?

March 20, 2006


Category: Prior Relationship

We haven't engaged in F/m BDSM play since my lover has returned home.

The Bondage Master

Category: Entertainments

Japanese movie featuring Shibari rope bondage and a dominatrix working at a fetish club.

March 19, 2006

Millions to ProDomme

Category: BDSM News

Dominatrix - professional mistress - Rie Eto cheats man out of millions of dollars.

Too Many Rules = Too Many Complications?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

BDSM M/s relationships: how many regulations, prescriptions, prohibitions do a D/s couple really need?

March 18, 2006

Crush Erotica

Category: Emotional Health

Thoughts about videos featuring women crushing animals and the object crush kink.

March 16, 2006

Sick : An Afterthought

Category: Emotional Health

Bob Flanagan and Sheree Rose capture how sadomasochism and romantic love blend in Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist.

Alexandra is Back

Category: Prior Relationship

My lover has returned and after getting in practice the BDSM and fetish part of our loving relationship can resume.

March 15, 2006

Punishment Switches

Category: Instruments

S&M: how to cut and clean a branch or limb to make a switch.

March 13, 2006

BDSM : The One True Way?

Category: Emotional Health

There is no specific right path, master plan for people who engage in S&M and D/s whether as play or a life together.

March 12, 2006

Bob Flanagan

Category: Entertainments

We watched Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist: an example of good humor, creativity and S&M.

March 11, 2006

Icy Pain

Category: Pain

Effect of using ice during flagellation, whipping BDSM scenarios.

March 10, 2006

Preposterous CBT V

Category: Genitorment

Male masochist has fantasies of a Mistress putting fish hooks in his penis.

Work to Scale : 3

Category: Stories By Others

D/s horror story of a male engineer forced to become a baby owned by women.

Work to Scale : 2

Category: Stories By Others

BDSM fantasy fiction: man converted into and forced to live as baby.

Work to Scale : 1

Category: Stories By Others

An engineer finds himself trapped in a lifetime of slavery.

March 9, 2006

Mistakes: Don't Bother with Shame & Blame

Category: Emotional Health

Doms and Dommes will make bad choices, incorrect decisions. In D/s we learn, grow and improve. Don't get caught up in negative emotions.

When Play Spankings Become Punishment

Category: Questions & Observations by Others

Women who enjoy spanking men for fun but sometimes turn it into a real punishment and discipline session.

Questions & Observations by Others

Category: Questions & Observations by Others

Ask for insight, publish your own views of Femdom, sadomasochism, woman worship and BDSM.

Horse Ranch Helper

Category: Stories By Others

Tease and denial story of a pretty young wife and her older husband.

The Toys That Time Forgot

Category: Instruments

We all by kinky BDSM devices that we forget to use in our S&M play sessions and scenes.

March 8, 2006

Their Journey Continues ...

Category: F/m Weblogs

A loving Femdom couple in an intense and happy D/s relationship.

CBT Macramé & Other ...

Category: Genitorment

Inventive, interesting and entertaining forms of cbt play.

Near Future

Category: About

Often much or often I may or may not add new pages to my BDSM website.

The Search for Advice

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Using the web to learn and grow in D/s and S&M.

March 7, 2006

Cheap Testicle Weights

Category: Genitorment

A simple inexpensive padlock would work for ball bondage in cbt scenarios.

March 6, 2006


Category: S&M Fantasies

Little spikes between your legs keep you from walking or resting.

March 5, 2006

Over Communication?

Category: Emotional Health

Can Misstresses, Masters, slaves and submissives ever talk too much about their wants, needs and desires?

Male Milking Machine

Category: Genitorment

Autosex's mechanical device for automated male penis milking as seen in his videos.

Nickname? Pet Name?

Category: Humbling

Male slave assigned a new name by his owner/Goddess.

March 4, 2006

Dominant Women Are Looking For ...

Category: Reference

Submissive men who are intelligent, funny, interesting, can hold conversations: guys who are worth meeting, knowing and spending time with.

Suffering For Her Pleasure

Category: S&M Fantasies

Living my Domme's most painful fantasy to make her happy.

March 3, 2006

Bondage Dreams

Category: Bondage , Category: S&M Fantasies

Crazy fantasies of BDSM incorporating cages, confinement, chains, the humbler and being locked in a box.

Chastity Therapists

Category: Chastity

Orgasm denial as a career for mental health professionals - it is just a joke.

On Loving a Transsexual Woman

Category: Gender Follies , Category: Prior Relationship

My lover is a transgendered Domme: many men don't understand that I don't make a fetish of her transsexuality, that I just plain love her.

March 2, 2006

How Do You Milk a Man?

Category: Genitorment

Forced masturbation without ejaculation and prostate massage strategies and tactics.

A Human Pet's Yearning

Category: Humbling

A image of submissive devotion that captures the love I feel within my F/m relationship.

What Are Your Hard Limits?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Masochist or sadist: some acts seem wrong, bad or you just plain cannot tolerate. What kinds of BDSM play are beyond your tolerance and acceptance?

March 1, 2006

Honest Fantasies

Category: My Inner Life

When I dream of what my Domina may do to me it is important that my fantasies be true to both of us, my needs as well as hers.