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July 31, 2006

Denied Sex With Girlfriend or Wife?

Category: Emotional Health

F/m infidelity: Mistress denies man right to have sex with his wife. An usual mix of D/s and infidelity.

July 30, 2006

Ruined Orgasms

Category: Chastity

Orgasm denial technique for inducing humility and sexual frustration in a male slave.

July 29, 2006

Gender : Coda

Category: Gender Follies , Category: My Inner Life

Last thoughts about gender and female domination.

July 28, 2006

Femdom Rules

Category: D/s Practices

Strict regulations that a female dominant might enforce over the behavior of a male slave.

An Exemplary Blog

Category: F/m Weblogs

A woman's self-exploration of entering into a dominant role with her beloved husband.

July 27, 2006

Mostly About Gender

Category: My Inner Life

Female domination, male submission: sex roles, gender identity, heterosexual cliches and norms. The silly norms that people like Elise Sutton propagate and teach.

July 26, 2006

Mostly About Genitals

Category: About

F/m play and male manipulation: the role of penis and testicle control and punishment in female domination.

July 25, 2006

Young Goddess' Face Slapping Party

Category: Stories By Others

Rude young man's face slapped and is spanked for hours by young women to whom he has been sassy.

The Penis and Female Domination

Category: Chastity

Femdom stereotypes about male sexuality and lust.

July 24, 2006

Does Not Equal

Category: Questions & Observations by Others

Submissiveness doesn't equal masochism or being weak-willed.

July 21, 2006

F/m Gender Politics

Category: Gender Follies , Category: Miscellany

Are submissive males just projecting their own sexist fantasies on dominant women with talk of female supremacy and female-led relationships?

Ann Coulter - Dominatrix?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Political Femdom - conservative mistress and liberal slave: or vice versa.

July 20, 2006

Preposterous CBT VI

Category: Genitorment

Harsh CBT with superglue, nails, pins, electricity torture.

This is a Joke

Category: Extreme

Make me Scream and Beg Forever! - Extreme masochist seeks total real life slavery: alt.torture usenet newsgroup personal ad.

Transsexual Dommes

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations , Category: Gender Follies

Stereotypes and rejection faced by some mtf transgendered dominatrices.

July 19, 2006

Let Me Share Your Opinions, Thoughts, Hopes and Dreams

Category: Questions & Observations by Others , Category: Stories By Others

Let me publish your BDSM writings, free or for promotion on my site: you can even have a link to your kink or fetish website.

July 18, 2006

Cyber Spanking Machine!

Category: Instruments

Virtual online corporal punishment toy - ideal for the long distance S&M play.

July 17, 2006

The Myth of the Fat Dominant

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Some claim that Dommes and Doms are more likely to be overweight than average people.

Principle of Least Interest

Category: Emotional Health

Establishing dominance and submission in traditional heterosexual romantic and marital relationships.

July 16, 2006

Topping From the Bottom

Category: D/s Practices

Strategies and techniques for beginning or initiating BDSM play sessions and scenes.

July 13, 2006

Again: How To Meet a Dominant Woman

Category: Emotional Health

The psychology of approaching Dommes who might be willing to establish some sort of relationship with you.

1967 Venus in Furs

Category: Entertainments

Sexploitation film based on Leopold von Sacher-Masoch's novel.

July 12, 2006

Asexual BDSM?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Are S&M and D/s possible without sexuality or at least erotic feelings?

July 10, 2006


Category: Miscellany

ProDommes: should you think of exploiting, catering to men with a booger fetish?

July 9, 2006

Tenderness and Pain

Category: Prior Relationship

A male masochist learns about a dominant woman's ability to mix both romantic sweetness and sadism in an evening's passion or play.

July 8, 2006

Ethnicity, Race?

Category: Wishing Games

Do you wish for a Japanese, Latina, Eurasian dominatrix, dom , submissive or slave? Male or female. If only for the fun of imagining it?

BDSM Wishes, Hopes, Dreams, Fantasies

Category: Wishing Games

Imagine your ideal Domme or submissive male and tell me what she or he would be like.

July 7, 2006

Holy Virgin Femdom

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Religious psychology and Femdom, BDSM, D/s - are you aware of a connection or parallel or do you feel a sexist God violates submission and domination in a loving, romantic fetish relationship?

July 3, 2006

Images of Submission

Category: My Inner Life

Living as a human pet, serving and pleasing my owner. Pure joyful surrender to my dominant: the need to be humble and servile.


Category: About

What does a pansexual polyfetishist like to read, listen to and watch?


Category: About

Interior life of one pansexual kinkster.

July 2, 2006

Femdom Erotica and Emotional Health

Category: Emotional Health

Psychological effects of submissive men seeing female domination pornography on the web. How does it interfere with their communication with dominant women?