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August 31, 2006

Playing the Helicopter

Category: Genitorment

A form of cbt play from a female domination site focusing on sadomasochistic role play for loving couples.

August 30, 2006

Ugol's Law

Category: Reference

Vanity. vanity - there is no new kink or fetish under the sun. Lore from the usenet newsgroup alt.sex.bondage.

August 29, 2006

LFA / FLR / D/s S&M / DD / HoH / BDSM (Alphabet Soup Anyone?)

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Loving Female Authority, Female Led Relationships - how do they fit into the culture and history of bondage, domination, sadism and masochism?

Trouble in the World of Phone Sex

Category: F/m Weblogs

Failed money mistresses and PSO ProDommes who seek to harm the successful phone sex workers.

August 27, 2006


Category: F/m Weblogs

Blogs and fiction by submissive men in female led relationships who desire to be cuckolded because that is what Elise Sutton says they should want as true submisives.

Germanicus Divine

Category: Stories By Others

S&M fiction of punishment and honor in the aftermath of the murder of Germanicus Caesar.

August 26, 2006

A Fine Romance

Category: Prior Relationship

Caveat: pure romantic mush advisory in effect.

August 25, 2006

Dating Advice for F/m Folk

Category: F/m Weblogs

Female dominant, male submissive self-help website for men and women seeking playmates and partners.

More Male Milking Machines

Category: Genitorment

Automating male erotic teasing and orgasm denial via mechanical devices.

August 24, 2006

No Nudist Dominatrices!

Category: Miscellany

Lifestyle nudist attacks BDSM folk for making nudism look unwholesome.


Category: Prior Relationship

I do love my beloved Goddess, girlfriend and lover.

August 23, 2006

Hypnotic Femdom

Category: Reference

Experience virtual female domination by listening to the voice of a lifestyle Hypno Domme for free. Never any charge, cost or fee.

Make Me Your Sissy Bitch!

Category: F/m Weblogs

Faux submissives who focus on lifetime chastity, cuckoldry, sissyfication and wander the web begging women to take control of them. What dominant woman would want to?

Referred Testicle Pain

Category: Genitorment

CBT: a blow from a testicle whipping elicits pain in my abdominal area.

A Superior Female's Rule is Like Heroin

Category: Questions & Observations by Others

Reader submission: an ecstatic prose poem adoring becoming a woman's helpless male slave.

August 22, 2006

Variations on a Dominant Theme

Category: My Inner Life

The differences among BDSM play with a lover, friend or relative stranger.

August 21, 2006

Craving Less. Getting More.

Category: Worship & ecstasy

D/s relationship: in taking control of my masochism I should come to more fully enjoy my desire for submission. Both are necessary to me but can be kept in just proportion.

Domme Rip-Off Artists on the Web

Category: Reference

Talentless phone sex operators, incompetent professional dominatrices. Fine a talented and safe sex-worker to fulfill your fantasies.

Female Masters (as it were)

Category: F/m Weblogs

Femdom honorifics: dominant women who choose maledom titles like Sir or Master.

August 20, 2006

My Commonplace Masochistic Fantasies

Category: S&M Fantasies

Masturbating about pain and humiliation can be entertaining. But sanity and balance require that perverted dreams not interfere with possible within actual BDSM scenes and relationships.

August 19, 2006

Male Slave as Woman's Property

Category: D/s Practices

Gynarchy and civil rights:would a malesub really be happy if his Mistress or Goddess could sell him to another woman at will?

August 17, 2006

Evil Dom Women!

Category: Genitorment

Men who fear, assume that sadistic female dominants may subject them to permanent physical injury.

August 16, 2006

Who Will Be America's Truest Submissive

Category: Emotional Health

BDSM relationships: some people fear their adoration, desire to please is inadequate, inauthentic. Often they are allowing the prescriptions of self-imagined arbiters to delude them.

On Kneeling

Category: Humbling

The joy a submissive man finds in a simple posture of adoration.

August 15, 2006

Fellatio and Dominant Women

Category: Humbling

Submissive men who are opposed to Dommes providing them pleasure via oral sex.

Mistress Lee

Category: BDSM News

Dominatrix seeks to become governor of Nevada - if she won would all the gynarchy fans move to that state?

August 14, 2006

Bottom, Slave, Masochist ... ?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

There's little inherent lexical logic in BDSM labels but you should qualify the words you chose to designate your role in kink with nuance.

BDSM and Tears

Category: Pain

Is causing a masochist, submissive, slave to cry during D/s and S&M scenes, sessions, scenarios unwise?

August 12, 2006

The Path to Submissiveness

Category: My Inner Life

D/s introspection: my hunger to be a man who submits to the will of a dominant derives from my parents marriage. There is no shame in that. The only sane goal is finding erotic peace of mind.

August 11, 2006

The Path to Here

Category: My Inner Life

A necessarily skeletal outline of the origins of my masochism and to a lesser degree of my submissiveness. Anything that does these topics justice would just be far too long.

August 10, 2006

Impotence? Castration?

Category: Emotional Health

Submissive men who want their sexuality, penis or testicles removed, nufflied, destroyed by a dominant woman.

August 9, 2006

How Can You Know You Want What You've Never Had?

Category: Emotional Health

Larry Townsend's Leather Notebook: advice to a man seeking a life of unconditional slavery. The guy had no experience of BDSM and assumed he really knew his true needs.

August 8, 2006

Sweet, Soft Surrender

Category: Prior Relationship

A male masochist's romantic longing to worship his dominant, to crawl behind while lead on a lesh like a pet.

August 7, 2006


Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Female domination and male submission beyond stereotypes, without clichés: imaginative and creative.

The Female Brain

Category: Gender Follies

Sexist science disguised as feminist research

August 6, 2006

DIY Bondage Toys

Category: Bondage , Category: Instruments

Plans and schematics for do-it-yourself BDSM devices.

Female Domination is Emasculating?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Femdom relationships with the male as sissy: do they indicate that some guys feel guility for being men or masculine?

Second-half Blowout (Super Bowl Sunday Part 3)

Category: Stories By Others

A wife uses testicle torture to teach her husband to be a more loving and appreciative spouse.

August 5, 2006

Pre-Game Hype (Super Bowl Sunday Part 2)

Category: Stories By Others

A wife uses an electrified cock ring and nipple clamps to teach her husband respect and appreciation.

August 4, 2006

The Road to the Big Game (Super Bowl Sunday Part 1)

Category: Stories By Others

A woman learns how to reform her husband and save her marriage.

Femdom Search Statistics

Category: About

What submissive men looking for on Google and other search engines.

August 2, 2006

Licking Her Boots

Category: Prior Relationship

Wanting to humble myself before the woman that I worship as my Goddess.

Forced Fellatio & Strap-On Sex

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Do male bisexuals find sexual self-realization in Femdom play, relationships?

August 1, 2006

The 800th Kink Note

Category: About

There are more femdom blogs, journals, diaries and online personal stories, memoirs and autobiography than before.

Emotional Masochism : Gender Bias?

Category: Gender Follies , Category: Humbling

Is D/s including harsh humiliation, degradation more common in F/m play than M/f scenes and scenarios?