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November 30, 2006

Trance of Adoration

Category: Worship & ecstasy

Worshipful feelings as an expression of romantic love in a D/s relationship.

Communicating Kinks

Category: Emotional Health

Sharing fetishes and BDSM desires and appetites with your dominant or submissive partner.

November 29, 2006

Colossus and the Amazon Queen

Category: Entertainments

Female domination and cruelty were frequent elements in old Italian sword and sandal movies. A bit of popular culture that seems to have eluded many people looking for uncommon instances of what has since come to be called Femdom.

November 28, 2006

Paradox of Punishment

Category: Punishment & Discipline

Discipline and correction as BDSM play scenarios rather than an actual need or requirement of D/s relationships.

Chastity Belt for Christmas

Category: Chastity

A submissive man foolishly thought he should buy a male orgasm denial device for his wife when it was really for himself.

November 27, 2006

Paradox of Obedience

Category: Prior Relationship

Establishing a loving dominant, submissive relationship without formal rules, rituals or protocols.

Paradox of Submission

Category: D/s Practices

Simple, very basic defining of submission in the context of D/s relationships.

November 26, 2006

In the Closet

Category: Bondage

BDSM fantasies and possibilities for household closet confinement.

Happy Anniversary

Category: Chastity

One man's year of chastity: milked ejaculation, neo-tantric orgasms only.

November 25, 2006

BDSM Thought Experiments

Category: About

I hope to write about fetish and kink in a humane and open fashion. Without pretension or pomposity.

November 24, 2006

Women With a Cane

Category: Instruments

Would you like for a woman to tie you down and work you over with a cane?

November 23, 2006

A Lifestyle Created By Us

Category: Emotional Health

Master or Mistress, slave or submissive, top or bottom: whatever BDSM label don't let anyone convince you that your kink or fetish requires you to match some imaginary norm or ideal.

Self-Destructive Self-Doubt

Category: My Inner Life

How self-doubt has limited the D/s portion of my romance with Alexandra.

November 22, 2006

5 Kinks : Preamble

Category: Cravings

On confessing my deepest submissive and masochistic desires to my loving, dominant partner.

5 Kinks : Two Special Fantasies

Category: Cravings

Pulling her behind me in a cart and having her lock me in an iron cage.

5 Kinks : A Boy and His Genitals

Category: Cravings

The thrilling variety of genitorment within even loving sadomasochistic female dominant relationships.

5 Kinks : Herbs, Spices and CBT

Category: Cravings

All the natural holistic ways with which you can reduce a masochist to willing tears.

5 Kinks : Testicle Weights

Category: Cravings

Having something having from my scrotal sac leaves me feeling very submissive.

5 Kinks : Being Milked

Category: Cravings

Involuntary orgasm and eating my own ejaculate.

Chatting With My Beloved

Category: Prior Relationship

How instant messaging using Google Talk keeps both the D/s and purely romantic parts of the love that Alexandra and I share alive, evolving and refreshed.

Bondage as Bliss

Category: Bondage

Emotional state evoked by being bound and rendered helpless in D/s.

November 21, 2006

Up All Night

Category: Extreme

In this kinky Steffi illustration a man learns what is in store for him when on his wedding night his wife binds him and forces him to sleep standing in bondage all night.

Slave in a Barrel

Category: Cravings

Another interesting Steffi illustration. This of a male slave kept in an unusual combination of barrel and cage, then left in the woods. Can't help but smile at such over-the-top F/m artwork.


Category: Miscellany

Enslaved sub-hubby and stern, selfish Mistress Wife illustration by a Femdom artist that I'd like to know more about.

November 20, 2006

Femdom From Outer Space!

Category: My Inner Life

A weird title for an entry on how my long distance relationship causes me to think my way into a box, twist my brain cells like a pretzel and engage in overrefined self-doubts.

November 19, 2006

Beneath the Feet of Your Goddess

Category: Entertainments

A painting of a man content and satisfied to lay at rest in worship of the woman he aches to own him, mind, body, heart and soul.

November 18, 2006

Negative Comments on Femdom Blogs

Category: F/m Weblogs

Rude and hostile remarks leave on certain D/s and S&M blogs that cause women grief, frustration and anger.

November 17, 2006

10 Best Things About BDSM

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

The attributes and aspects of D/s and S&M that make sadism and masochism satisfying for dominant and submissive men and women.

Leather Stapping

Category: S&M Fantasies

Full-body beating while suspended and helpless.

November 16, 2006

Sweetest Surrender

Category: Humbling

Joy of humility and loss of self-identity within a loving D/s relationship.

Yuck! My Boyfriend is a Foot Fetishist

Category: Emotional Health

Sexual desire, erotic mood can't always be perfectly symmetrical or balanced.

November 13, 2006

Submitting to ...

Category: Pain

Divers psychologies of submission within BDSM.

November 8, 2006


Category: Prior Relationship

Escaping BDSM generic terms and stereotypes for orientation, identity like submissive, slave, masochist and redefining my my role in my loving relationship that includes sadomasochism and D/s.

Kinky Auction

Category: BDSM News

S&M British vehicle registration plate and number for sale on eBay UK.

Vintage Femdom I

Category: Miscellany

Old black and white photograph.

November 7, 2006

Are Male Submissives and Dominants Alike?

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Do male masochists and sadists want more intensity than their female BDSM play partners?

November 4, 2006

Erotically Exciting Personas

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

BDSM blogs allow us to meet if only Platonically interesting and arousing dominant, submissive, male, female sadists and masochists.

Orgasm Denial on the Farm

Category: Miscellany

Male milking, tease and denial - but it is part of agriculture not kink.

November 3, 2006

Just Her Slave Animal

Category: Wishing Games

Wearing a bit gag and just serving my owner's needs.

November 1, 2006

Foot Worship

Category: Miscellany

French photography featuring a man adoring a woman's leg and foot.