Down On My Knees

Have specific plans or goals for changing how BDSM fits into your life in the coming year? Some new fetish? Doing things better?

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Yellow Peril female supremacist? Asian gynarchist? Oriental supervillaness?

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A short appreciation of the most gifted illustration of female domination and sadistm.

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My erotic drives seem completely focused in surrender and devotion - for now.

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This lexical narrowness based on chattel slavery keeps pointless discussions about what makes a person a real slave going on within the BDSM community.

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The queer, quirky emotional states, mood transformations of shared loving sadomasochistic exploration between two loving partners.

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Putting a man in a cage need not be a sinister form of D/s play. Thank you Lady Julia.

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The ugly and terrifying night when my poor uncle's mind was destroyed and he was left a helpless vegetable. Not fiction.

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Looking at photographs of sexy women as therapy.

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Is it OK to laugh during a BDSM scene? Can humor kink and fetish blend together?

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The psychological and emotional value of using a physical device in some male orgasm denial scenarios.

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Silly online personality test.

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Even a F/m relationship with a man worshiping a woman as a goddess doesn't mean he isn't masculine and shouldn't express his needs.

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An interview with the slavish fetishistic man who writes Down On My Knees.

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Do you know the secret history of male chastity belts and restraints? Who decided that preventing masturbation was for fun and not morality?

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My beloved and I talk or beginning a period of orgasm regulation and control for me as a way to recover sexually from the damage of my prior relationship.

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Focusing on the real lover, girlfriend, dominant and stopping masturbating about impossible BDSM dreams.

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I'm a masochist but I've never felt inspired or aroused by the genuine suffering of victims of torture or abuse.

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Falsity of standard terms for dominance and submission with in the fetish and kink community.

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When masochistic desires push the edge of 24/7 TPE, psychological enslavement, emotional manipulation.

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Creating a happy BDSM play scene as a form of emotional release during times of emotional turmoil.

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Diversity among women who espouse visions of the female as the natural superior of the male. Did you know that Elise Sutton has a new book out?

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Trying to cope with having masochistic desires that are physically or psychologically dangerous or impossible.

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How much of a place in the mythology and popular culture of female domination does this fictional goddess have?

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Femdom archetype? Ayesha, the Queen of Death, the White Goddess of the lost city of Kôr. The high-priestess of the Egyptian moon-goddess Isis, and Amenartes Nectanebes, daughter of the last pharaoh of Egypt.

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One conceptualization of the true paradigm of Mistress/Master - slave relationships and the emotional capacity to actually live within them.

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A woman wishing to explore female dominance need to establish her own metaphor, personal style: not be misled by people teaching abstract rules or preachings of perfect norms.

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A different way of thinking of the dynamics of BDSM, play, interaction and relationships.

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Has the image of Fu Manchu's daughter ever featured in men's fantasies as a wicked Asian dominatrix?

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Alexandra and I discuss the idea of watching some hardcore clips of female domination and sadism together as a couple.

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Half-truths and untruths that dominant women and submissive men tell each other.

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Choosing the women to fantasize about for imaginary BDSM experiences, models, drawings and actresses.

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Let us review your bondage furniture, BDSM gear, S&M implements, cbt or chastity devices.

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Striving to imagine hardcore but workable long-term sadomasochistic play scenarios.

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The cruel goddess who ruled Atlantis and preyed on men seems like a reasonable Femdom fantasy source.

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The peculiar mix of thrill and fear that is at the root of much masochism.

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Seasons greetings to my site's readers.

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