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January 31, 2007

Emotional Masochism

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Psychological roots of the desire for humiliation and degradation play.

January 30, 2007

Sex-Kitten Interview

Category: About

Interview with a sex blogger.

January 29, 2007

Play : Time, Mood, Depth, Intensity

Category: Questions & Observations by Others

Finding more time for D/s play getting in the mood and having more intense BDSM scenes.

January 23, 2007

M/s Speech?

Category: S&M Fantasies

Imagining how master, mistress, slave, submissive would talk to each other in BDSM scenes and role-playing.

January 22, 2007

The Submissive Person is in Control?

Category: Emotional Health

Misconception that limits and safewords mean that the slave or bottom is in charge of BDSM scenes and play.

January 21, 2007

Beautiful Suffering

Category: Worship & ecstasy

Often it seems that discussions of erotic sadomasochistic play would profit from the vocabularies of Christology and hagiography.

January 20, 2007

Nudity & BDSM

Category: D/s Practices

What about slave clothing or some special form of attire that denotes servant status. Is naked and on knees the only way to perform kinky scenes and fetish roles?

January 16, 2007

Face Slapping as Erotic Play

Category: BDSM Play

Why would a man enjoy having a woman slap him in the face? Is it a safe fetish?

January 15, 2007

Femdom : Do It For Fun!

Category: F/m Weblogs

Joyful interplay between women who may enjoy dominance and men who know they enjoy erotic submission. So sad to see sex play turned into stupid politics (female supremacy), bad sociology, idiotic self-help culture when it could be empowering and joyful for both partners in the relationship.

Just Her Human Pet

Category: Sketches

One man's image of what it could be like to live as a woman's slave pet.

January 14, 2007

Exploring Human Pet Play

Category: F/m Weblogs

Dommes who enjoy having men eat food out of pet dishes like puppies.

January 13, 2007

Submissive or Bottom?

Category: Emotional Health

The limitations inherent in the often narrow terms used for BDSM roles commonly used by people. Real people rarely match the labels, often combining many different elements and aspects.

January 10, 2007

What if She Tried to Commit Suicide?

Category: Emotional Health

If the Domme almost kills herself in what emotional state does that leave the male slave, submissive man?

Becoming a Phone Sex Operator

Category: F/m Weblogs

Beginnings of becoming a a telephone madame and Femdom website mistress.

Vintage Femdom II

Category: Miscellany

Early photo of a red-headed domme.

January 9, 2007

A Taser for Your Toybag?

Category: Electro-play

Will a consumer level stun gun become a part of BDSM play paraphernalia? Will some foolish sadist harm or kill some equally stupid masochist?

January 8, 2007

Ring Bell for Quick Service!

Category: Miscellany

Do you use a bell to summon your slave to your presence or remind your slave of a neglected or forgotten task?

January 6, 2007

BDSM and Food

Category: D/s Practices

Manipulating what the slave or submissive person eats as punishment, degradation or BDSM mind games.

January 4, 2007

Gender Follies

Category: Gender Follies

Pointers to a few contemporary discussion of gender (having nothing really to do with what is often called Femdom).

January 1, 2007

What Is This All About?

Category: About

Why write a personal blog about female domination, fetish, kink and BDSM?