Down On My Knees

Psychological roots of the desire for humiliation and degradation play.

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Interview with a sex blogger.

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Finding more time for D/s play getting in the mood and having more intense BDSM scenes.

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Imagining how master, mistress, slave, submissive would talk to each other in BDSM scenes and role-playing.

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Misconception that limits and safewords mean that the slave or bottom is in charge of BDSM scenes and play.

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Often it seems that discussions of erotic sadomasochistic play would profit from the vocabularies of Christology and hagiography.

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What about slave clothing or some special form of attire that denotes servant status. Is naked and on knees the only way to perform kinky scenes and fetish roles?

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Why would a man enjoy having a woman slap him in the face? Is it a safe fetish?

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Joyful interplay between women who may enjoy dominance and men who know they enjoy erotic submission. So sad to see sex play turned into stupid politics (female supremacy), bad sociology, idiotic self-help culture when it could be empowering and joyful for both partners in the relationship.

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One man's image of what it could be like to live as a woman's slave pet.

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Dommes who enjoy having men eat food out of pet dishes like puppies.

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The limitations inherent in the often narrow terms used for BDSM roles commonly used by people. Real people rarely match the labels, often combining many different elements and aspects.

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If the Domme almost kills herself in what emotional state does that leave the male slave, submissive man?

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Beginnings of becoming a a telephone madame and Femdom website mistress.

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Early photo of a red-headed domme.

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Will a consumer level stun gun become a part of BDSM play paraphernalia? Will some foolish sadist harm or kill some equally stupid masochist?

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Do you use a bell to summon your slave to your presence or remind your slave of a neglected or forgotten task?

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Manipulating what the slave or submissive person eats as punishment, degradation or BDSM mind games.

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Pointers to a few contemporary discussion of gender (having nothing really to do with what is often called Femdom).

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Why write a personal blog about female domination, fetish, kink and BDSM?

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