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February 28, 2007

Blogging Ideas

Category: F/m Weblogs

Help and inspiration for Femdom bloggers.

Yellow Peril Femdom

Category: Entertainments

Asian women as archetypes of female cruelty in American pop culture.

Happy Fetishists as Role Models

Category: Emotional Health

Psychological rewards of kink.

February 26, 2007

Waiting for 3/19

Category: Prior Relationship

Waiting for the one that I love and adore to return to my life.

February 23, 2007

S&M Bores

Category: Miscellany

A couple that talks too much about fetishes and kinky sex.

February 20, 2007

Our Sadomasochistic Bond

Category: Worship & ecstasy

The ecstatic joy of worshiping a sadistic mtf fetish creature.

20 Maxims About BDSM

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Personal philosophy of consensual sadomasochistic play, respect for other people's fetishes and kinks within D/s and S&M.

February 19, 2007

Femdom Chastity

Category: Chastity

Risk aware consensual F/m tease and orgasm denial play.

Gender Follies II

Category: Gender Follies

Gender politics stuff - no kink, sorry - because there's too much sexism in the rhetoric surrounding female domination.

February 17, 2007

What is Wrong With Loving Female Authority

Category: Emotional Health

LFA and FLR models of female dominance and male submission don't work for every man, woman or couple. Trying to conform will probably only send you to divorce court.

Fire Ants

Category: Genitorment

CBT via insect bites.

February 15, 2007

BDSM Reference

Category: Reference

S&M, fetish how-to, do-it-yourself projects, pervertibles, information.

February 14, 2007

A Valentine for My Beloved

Category: Prior Relationship

Both within BDSM and as a loving romantic guy it was a wonderful day when my beloved came into my life.

February 13, 2007

Sandpapered Nipples

Category: Pain

Possible uses of sandpaper for S&M fun.

Snake Goddess

Category: Miscellany

Imagine if you will a dominatrix with a giant snake ...

February 11, 2007

Alpha Domme

Category: Prior Relationship

Female sadist expresses desire to push the edge into darker and more kinky play with her loving male bottom.

February 10, 2007


Category: Prior Relationship

When psychological reinforcement proves a bad idea in a relationship that partly involves BDSM.

February 9, 2007


Category: Prior Relationship

Discovering a new and special emotional space in my loving female dominant relationship.

Worst Description of Female Domination Ever?

Category: Reference

Man's description of BDSM fetish scene attacks fetish pleasures as patriarchal, anti-feminist and similar bullshit rhetoric.

February 5, 2007

Age Play

Category: Reference

I have no desire to play son to a woman acting as mother or parent in D/s scenes.

February 4, 2007

The Flame

Category: My Inner Life

BDSM play can be enjoyable in mild, uncomplicated forms as well as pushing hard in the search for those ideal ecstatic moments.

February 3, 2007

BDSM and Libido

Category: Emotional Health

What becomes of kink and fetish play when erotic passion seems almost dead?

What is BDSM?

Category: Reference

What a bunch of depraved perverts!

February 2, 2007

Domme of Decades Gone

Category: Miscellany

A very, very early photograph of a masked dominatrix.