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July 31, 2007

An Agreement

Category: Prior Relationship

BDSM contract, plan, map, means for using structure as a way to enhance the D/s and sadomasochistic part of our romance.

July 30, 2007

Too Tired for S&M

Category: Entertainments

Having children around the house interferes with one couple's BDSM play.

July 29, 2007

How I Came to be Kinky

Category: My Inner Life

One man explains the origins of his masochism and desire to be submissive.

Make Him Submissive With Biochemistry

Category: Gender Follies

Women did you know that you can reprogram the male mind using chemicals produced by your own body?

Empress of All Space and Time

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Should intelligent people titles in D/s? Is there a way for men and women to eliminate self-consciousness about the foolishness of BDSM honorifics?

July 27, 2007

My Genitals are Her Trophies

Category: S&M Fantasies

Masochistic men who are lost in violent fantasies of being forced to accept castration and penectomy to please a sadistic, dominant woman.

July 26, 2007

Bad Things About Femdom

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

False stereotypes and bogus clichés in discourse in the subcultures associated with erotic female domination and male submission.

Cat O' Nine Tails & Flogger Reviewed

Category: Instruments

Reviews of two impact toys for BDSM crafted by Blue Rose of Tethered Passions.

The Ultimate Bondage Device?

Category: Bondage

All-in-one, comprehensive confinement, restraint BDSM toy?

July 25, 2007

Online Conversations about BDSM

Category: Emotional Health

Participants in discussions of BDSM often forget their hidden private assumptions and buried premises. This makes useful conversation about kink and fetish difficult.

July 24, 2007

S&M and Warm-Ups

Category: Pain

Regulating and controlling the physical intensity of corporal punishment and impact play.

July 20, 2007

Tops: Self-Acceptance, Self-Control, BDSM Addiction

Category: Emotional Health

Coping with being dominant and sadistic. Accepting your needs, maintaining the balance in your relationship.

BDSM Scenes, Titles : Aesthetics & Sincerity

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Can the theatrical component of D/s and S&M be acknowledged without compromising the emotional purity? What value is there in the titles often used in BDSM role play?

July 16, 2007

Dominance, Submission and Obscure Lusts

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Do some submissive men respond more to women with a certain shape? Do some dominant females care if a male is circumcised or uncircumcised? Do breasts and foreskin have hidden erotic power in BDSM?

July 15, 2007

Ludic BDSM

Category: Emotional Health

D/s, kink, fetish, power exchange are about pleasure, fulfillment, finding happiness. Don't let anyone turn your kink life into some sort of morality play or ethical trial.

July 13, 2007

Bisexual Men & Female Domination

Category: Gender Follies

Are contentedly bisexual males less likely enjoy submitting to a dominant female than heterosexual guys?

Sick & Pererted & @#&%!!!

Category: S&M Fantasies

Some sadists do have frightening and murderous fantasy lives.

The Random 7 Meme

Category: F/m Weblogs

One of those meme things bloggers do in defiance of laws forbidding chain letters.

July 11, 2007

Buy a Slave on eBay

Category: Miscellany

Mistresses, Masters - have you tried looking on eBay for your next submissive man or woman?

July 9, 2007

The 5 Essentials of Femdom Relationships

Category: Emotional Health

BDSM friendships and romance require certain personal qualities whether dominant top or submissive bottom.

A Knot of Bongage Kinksters

Category: Entertainments

BDSM nouns of assemblage; collective noun games in the context of fetish and kink.

July 7, 2007

Topping from the Bottom

Category: Emotional Health

BDSM relationships and play require emotional honesty and clarity lest one get lost in stereotypes like service tops and unreal slaves.

July 6, 2007

Distinguishing Degradation from Humiliation

Category: Humbling

Isolating the acts, experiences that trigger my emotional masochism.

July 2, 2007

Matrifascist from Beyond Space

Category: Entertainments

Female supremacy in comic books and even a gynosupremacist action figure.

Training Fantasies Examined

Category: S&M Fantasies

Psychological basis for harsh slave conditioning fantasies in a BDSM relationship.