Down On My Knees

Malware attack on Google's blogging platform may affect BDSM and sex blog authors and readers.

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Discovering that verbal humiliation's effect on me probably comes from early childhood experiences.

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What should a monogamous man do if he discovers the woman he loves is interested in exploring polyamory?

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Fetish cultural studies: our different lifestyle referents and assumptions about words, labels and terms create barriers in the discussion, communication of atypical sexuality. Particularly how the visible portion of the kink community differs from the invisible majority.

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Why though I'm a pansexual polyfetishist I don't have the emotional qualities - call it maturity - for polyamorous relationships.

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Some claim you must be master, mistress, dominant, top or slave, submissive, bottom. That you can't honestly and honorably mix the two power exchange orientations.

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I've learned to cope with being in a sometimes long distance romance.

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Early French femdom erotica: The Countess with the whip, Beautiful and terrible (the Man-dog). Novel of a heroine of Sacher-Masoch.

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Spending time in jail could've given me a chance to live out some BDSM fantasies. Instead being locked up taught me that some desires may be unrealizable.

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Why kidnapping scenarios, even as fantasies squick me and scare me.

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Am I losing my ability to have entertaining and enjoyable kinky fantasies?

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Femdom cultural studies: well, actually just another sample of my sexual psychohistorical self-exploration. Or verbal noodling.

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Foolish rules and guidelines that are supposed to govern female dominant, submissive male power exchange relationships.

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Belief that BDSM power exchange relationships require an inherently superior dominant and really inferior submissive person.

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Are there any female tops whose dominance or sadism is stimulated by certain ordinary articles of attire on males?

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Emotional reality of BDSM slave training in reality, real life instead of just erotic fantasies.

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Psychology, emotional risks of worship of the dominant and the parallel between power exchange, sadomasochism and religion.

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Body modification -penectomy, castration - in sadomasochistic fantasies and perhaps practice.

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Is this old courtesy title, term of respect usable as a word for addressing a female top? Is Ma'am too old fashioned, does it have inappropriate cultural associations?

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