Down On My Knees

On the mutual cultivation of responsiveness in dominant and submissive persons.

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Keeping my expectations and hopes for someone to do BDSM within sane boundaries.

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My thanks for kind words.

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An abbreviated summary of my years blogging on the web.

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Looking for insight into my emotional state from my sexual fantasies.

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A loving, long distance romance that included BDSM is no more.

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Looking for a top, dominant, master, domme, sadist in Research Triangle, NC: which sites would you use?

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Scholarship that men and women engaged in romantic female domination may have a false concept of early medieval literary culture.

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Thinking a little bit more about the theoretical possibility of meeting a BDSM play partner online.

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Term captures my lover's current goal better than polyamory.

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An example of the painful imaginings of a young masochist.

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Nonmonogamy vs. monogamy and self-pity.

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Adaptive, fluid, graceful, imaginative BDSM vs the fear of being a service top.

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People who have fantasies invoking historical evils maybe the ultimate outsiders in BDSM.

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How would you sum up your essence if crafting a BDSM personal or profile?

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Combining: Noxema, Icy Hot, Vicks VapoRub and capsaicin.

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What my current mastubatory practices and fantasies tell me about my current emotional state.

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My lover and I talk about the possible effect of seeing other people would have on our relationship.

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There are times when less immeadiate and direct forms of communication are best.

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Loving both genders, queer bisexuality, pansexual pleasures.

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Assorted remarks: neither thrills nor amusement are promised.

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Is it possible for a monogamous person to adapt to polyamory?

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Is it possible for a monogamous person to change their affectional orientation?

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Theoretical consideration of BDSM experiences outside of my current romance.

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How the mere prospect of polyamory seems to have shut me down sexually.

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Short note about myself. For friends only, no content for perverts, sorry.

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Uncertainty and doubt in thinking about the prospect of seeing other people for BDSM or erotic play.

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Seeking emotional integration and clarity during a time of internal confusion and conflict.

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Proving that the mind is a terribly wasteful thing.

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As a monogamous man I have to accept that the polyamorous desires of my lover may spell the end of our BDSM romance.

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Some nights being pansexual and having a mostly adaptive erotic orientation can actually be frustrating and confusing.

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The sexual psychology of sadomasochism is more subtle than many people seem to think.

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Stalag fiction - stories of Nazi women in concentration camps torturing men - highlights what many consider the darkest side of sadomasochistic fantasy and play.

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Is seeing a disconnect between power exchange, sadomasochism and visible sexual response a failure of language, psychology or erotic empathy?

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The particular pleasures that being submissive in my F/m relationship give me.

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When the quest for pervertables leave you without necessary kitchen tools.

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