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November 27, 2007

Fantasy Comments

Category: F/m Weblogs

Weird and unwanted comments left on BDSM blogs.

November 26, 2007


Category: In Search Of

More fretting about finding a dom or domme in Durham, NC.

November 19, 2007

Male Emotional Masochism & Self-Esteem

Category: Emotional Health

Desires for humiliation and degradation shouldn’t cause a man to doubt his value as a human being. But he should accept that some female sadists are unable to cope with these desires.

BDSM vs. Vanilla Dating

Category: Gender Follies

How does matchmaking and mating differ for dominant women and submissive guys differ from the social norm?

November 18, 2007

BDSM Confusion

Category: In Search Of

Durham NC: a submissive masochist is uncertain as to what he should be looking for in terms of a relationship.


Category: In Search Of

The aesthetic attributes of my Durham, NC home is another stumbling block in searching for BDSM partners.

November 12, 2007

Femdom Kink is Vanilla

Category: Emotional Health

Sexist stereotypes recapitulate themselves too often in female domination and male submission.

The Quest for the Unconditional

Category: BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations

Ultimate emotional goal of most sadomasochistic fantasies, kinky dreams, BDSM wishes.

November 8, 2007

Do Dommes Want Dummies?

Category: Gender Follies

Women prefer smart men with ambition so bragging about your worthlessness may be the biggest mistake a submissive man can make in searching for a dominant female.

November 5, 2007

Reality Check

Category: Cravings

On the possibility of acting out, actualizing harsh and extreme BDSM desires in real life.

November 4, 2007

Licking the Toilet Clean : An Example

Category: Cravings

Remembering one of my earliest images of degradation. The slavish desire to feel owned and controlled.