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February 29, 2008


Category: Entertainments

Imagine being enslaved by a vampire, alien, demon or robot.

February 25, 2008

The Doghouse

Category: In Search Of

Gay male master, slave - owner, property themed BDSM website.

Craigslist 2

Category: In Search Of

Durham, NC: searching for a BDSM top online.

February 19, 2008

Multiple Profiles?

Category: In Search Of

Establishing separate profiles for different aspects of my sexuality.

February 18, 2008


Category: In Search Of

Using the Raleigh/Durham M4M ads to search for a local sadist, master.

Response on CollarMe (Today)

Category: In Search Of

Yet more about my search for a sadist, master, top in Durham, North Carolina.

No Sex for You Mr! Don't Even Talk About It!

Category: Chastity , Category: Emotional Health

The femdom fantasy of permanent male chastity, lifestyle, lifetime orgasm denial.

February 16, 2008

Hush of Submission

Category: My Inner Life

On missing the tranquility of consensual erotic surrender to a dominant personality.

February 11, 2008

Fanmail from Chicago

Category: In Search Of

A strange master in California offers to fly me out from North Carolina.

February 9, 2008

Bottom or Slave

Category: Rules & Rituals

Differences between objective and subjective D/s roles, titles and honorifics.

Flogging a Cock

Category: Genitorment

On the male masochist's pleasure in penis torment.

Shame and Degradation

Category: Humbling

Humiliation is a valued submissive experience for me without ever actually feeling shamed.

February 5, 2008

Notes on Corporal Punishment

Category: Pain

The masochist's joys in the sadists erotic inflication of torture.

February 3, 2008

Most Masochists are Male

Category: Gender Follies

Men are more likely to enjoy pain than women they say.

February 2, 2008

Gender, Me and Kink

Category: Gender Follies , Category: My Inner Life

My vanilla and BDSM sexual orientations aren't identical.