Domestic Discipline?

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Can’t remember if it was looking at the covers to the back issues of Whap!, skimming through sites like the Disciplinary Wives Club but I found myself aroused by the images of women punishing their spouses.

Domestic isicipline cornertime

Spanked, paddled or whipped for being ill-tempered or some other domestic sin. Being punished for some quotidian failing has never been a fantasy of mine (getting whacked as a slave - for an error or at her whim - is another matter).

Role-playing isn’t something I’ve thought much about. When we play we’re owner and slave. She’s not Ilsa She-Wolf of the SS or my mommy. If she wanted to make a game of it a role, say, a sadistic prison warden I’d comply.

I only recall my Momma spanking me once. Only reason it sticks in memory is I kept my mouth shut lest it awaken my Daddy and he give me a second beating. (NB to Alexandra: maybe that is where the silent suffering started.)

Thinking about this partly prompted my last sketch which featured about as justifiable reason for domestic discipline as I can imagine. I did toy with the notion fleetingly in an earlier one and find one more. Though the second is prompted by something I don?t ordinarily do; just needed a pretext.

That I found images of F/m domestic punishment arousing confused me. Was it a hidden craving? Something akin to fantasies about 24/7 slavery which I know to be unworkable for me?

Finally it hit me. The whippings took place in terms of a relationship. However much the Bitch Domme may inflame my libido I’ve discovered that D/s within romance is much richer.

Sure, I want her to seem ruthless and heartless at times. But the affection improves it all by several orders of magnitude.

See also Females Spanking Males.

Comments

My Husband and I have been living this lifestyle for 11 years. My Husband John is the most caring and loving man on earth. He makes us a wonderful life. He does need and crave a weekly spanking that can be quite severe at times. It is never cruel, or violent. It is always fair and the most important by his choice.

I was spanked regularly by my now deceased wife. it was consensual. and I miss the regular disapline sessions

i love the picture….i was punished by my Mistress a few weeks ago for a large infraction. i was told to stand naked in the corner of the basement for 1 hour in the dark. During that time i heard Mistress walking around the main floor and longed to be in Her presence. It did not take long to realise that i was indeed in a very sub position. The cold in the basement worked into my sissy feet and i had a difficult time in standing still. i was not whipped after but made to kneel before my Mistress and talk about what i had learnded from my time “in the corner”…..i would have longed to have Her behind me with the cane if even for a brief moment.

I was working as a maid for a married couple for a weekend. On the Saturday evening after I had served dinner and washed up the husband came into the kitchen and check that I had finished. He told me to stand in the corner facing the wall then he went out shutting the door and switching off the lights. I stood like that in the pitch dark for 3 hours while they relaxed in front of the TV. I was wonderful.

From the time I was about 12 years old I always wanted to be disciplined by a woman. In fact, before I married there were three women I dated who expressed a desire to do so, and it was totally THEIR idea—not mine. Perhaps the fact that I was quite tall (6’6”) was a factor, I don’t know.

But I saved myself for my wife, who disciplines me regularly with a brush or belt. As a result, I nearly always ask her permission before I do anything.

I’m glad for Ken that he has found a wife who disciplines him. I discipline my wayward husband - sometimes with the hairbrush and sometimes with my hand or if he is very naughty with the cane. I love caning him. I’d like to hear from Ken or his wife telling us what sort of naughtiness he gets spanked for. Come on, do tell!

My wife is 6’2” about 190 lbs. I am 5’10” 165 lbs and she puts me over her knee for a spanking when ever she wants and i can’t stop her as she is much stronger than I am. She usually catches me coming out of our bathroom after a shower, pulls me over to our bed, drops my towel and turns me over her knee. Afterwards she puts me on my back on our bed and rides me until we both lose control.

My girlfriend of 9 months is also my Mistress/disciplinarian. We practice quite a lot of femdom sexual stuff. But she also punishes me for misbehaviour such as lack of respect, lateness, insensitivity and cheek with hard ‘smackings’ as she calls them and/or caning. A smacking is with her hand (severely) and firmly with her slipper, hairbrush, paddle-brush (a large terrorfying (made for spanking)clothes brush, strap or paddle. Her favourites are the slipper and paddle-brush. I usually go over her knee but also have to bend down and touch my knees sometimes. I also get caned when more naughty or she is in a very strict mood Although I am aroused at the start of punishments I rarely am for very long as my Mistress is firm and always smacks or canes my bottom and thighs until I cry. I have to stand in the corner for a while afterwards whilst I blub and whimper. The amount of punishments I get vary, recently I was smacked or caned 4 times in a week but sometimes I go several weeks without being disciplined. It depends on my behaviour and my girlfriend’s mood. She is usually very strict and bossy though so I don’t tend to last long before being punished. Although she makes no secret of enjoying being a strict bitch when the modd takes her - perhaps partly because of it! - I love her very much; I’m very devoted and although I’m a strong willed guy myself I do try to please and obey her.

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My thanks,
Richard

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