Fear and Uncertainty
» BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations
A stack of cards, some dice or a spinner. Each card lists a punishment. The numerical devices control duration or quantity. There’s a wild card to be used as the dominant pleases. The slave has the option to refuse one card with the understanding that the next throw of the dice will be doubled.
This must be a S&M chestnut. It wasn’t to my young self when inspired by Monopoly or The Game of Life it formed some of my early fantasies.
Fear and uncertainty. I have a desire for them in D/s play. Yes, that may not be practical. Humor me.
Has there been anyone with strong slavish desires who hasn’t had fantasies that skirt or topple over the edge?
Fear
Being whipped while she is blindfolded would certainly induce considerable fear. Art by BW.
With fearful symmetry often I dreamt of fear induced by pain given at random or rigid regularity.
At random intervals I’d be whipped or tortured. Never knowing when it would come, how long it would last or the intensity. You say that is like brainwashing. Yep. Pushing the psychological extremes has much in common with breaking some one down. The trick would be to leave them not broken beyond repair.
On a fixed schedule - every hour on the hour perhaps I’d be lashed. Whatever was happening would be interrupted. Even if there were a scheduled punishment for an infraction. Your awareness of the passing of each minute would become acute.
Uncertainty
Backing off the edge. This is easier. She has surprised me. Either I was so startled by what she did or didn’t know what was coming next. It was glorious.
Now I realize I can’t write any scenarios. Though the cards and dice might work.
She’ll ambush me. Offering a script would kill the surprise.
I’ve avoided looking at much of some of the BDSM books she’s read. I’m happiest not knowing what is coming next.
