F/m Erotica: What are You Looking For?
» BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations
I was exchanging emails with the owner of a Femdom pay site that I know.
It is OK with Alexandra if I surf the web for erotica. She knows where my heart is. Besides I don’t really have an urge to do it much.
I’m exhausted with images of female dominance and cruelty. How often do you want to see a man’s nipples clamped?
The last time I watched some sample clips it was the voices that gave me pleasure. Not a huge amount but seeing the poor guy scurry about didn’t evoke a strong response.
I’d say I have an inexhaustible appetite for F/m artwork. But some is too poor in quality or just not for me. Examples of the former omitted out of politeness, Bill Ward is a perfect specimen of the latter.
I do like stories. But mostly it is “no, no, no, no.” Hard to read something you haven’t read before, if only in essence. Only Alexandra and I can really write stories that would excite me. Mine would be the products of my own libido. Alexandra’s would thrill me because I’d know they emerge from her own desires.
Tell me, when you wander about the web looking for ‘Femdom’ erotica what are you hoping to find? Is there a specific medium? I’m sure you are hoping that it will dovetail perfectly with your desires.
Do Dommes ever search the web for just the right image or story of the male slave they wish they owned?


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Akasha. I am very partial to most of her work.
She writes very well and she’s very smart.
Most of the femdom erotica I’ve found on-line has been very disappointing, often for the same reasons most so-called “erotica” is.
You know, 20 year old girls who sit around admiring their own (usually quite pneumatic) tits (language deliberate) and who introduce themselves by immediately launching into their vital statistics.
Double bonus points for forgetting the name of the “heroine” partway through, which always makes me wonder if the story is not only bad, but plagiarized and bad.
I suspect most of those are written by men.
Feh.
Posted by: R | September 6, 2005 9:33 PM
Akasha and Amity Harris were probably the first two F/m writers I read. Both were (are to a degree) active in the Femdom newsgroup which is where I first started learning about this stuff.
I’m sure lots of people swipe. Even more sure that some people repost the same storeies all over the web. I know I’ve seen something posted in a comment here that I also saw on Yahoo. But it was by the same guy.
How many submissive men pretend to be Dominant women online will always remain a mystery. But you always figure if they are too breathless and excited it is really a guy.
Posted by: Richard | September 7, 2005 2:37 PM
i too really enjoy Amity and Akasha’s writing best, and the Poetrician of old could make me feel i was RIGHT THERE being teased. His problem was that there was never any new stuff. Amity’s friend mule wrote some brilliant scenarios; they were good enough to make me not care it was pure fantasy. Erotica is almost too nice a term to describe a lot of drivel being posted. Poor spelling, enough extra words to make Strunk & White choke, and self-absorbed POV’s make finding a good story a real treat. i just found this site today and look forward to persusing it further.
Posted by: mike | October 22, 2005 12:51 AM
For more years than I care to remember, I have always had a fasination and deep interest in punishment of the male’s penis. It is after all that part of his anatomy which defines him as a male and most males consider their cocks to be the most important thing in their lives. I have never understood the FemDom theme where the story description or picture depicts a male having his buttocks caned etc. Why cane his backside when you can have much more fun with his penis? Much more sensitive than the buttocks, a great deal of pain can be inflicted on a penis with little effort. It can be pulled, stretched, pinched, twisted, nipped, clamped, caned, smacked or burnt etc. Any male (except perhaps me) would dread to have his favourite ‘toy’ in the hands of some female intent on making him suffer! I am always on the look out for stories, drawings or pictures showing penis punishment and would very much welcome ideas from others as to where I can obtain such material.
Posted by: Steve | April 25, 2006 12:48 PM