What Are Your Hard Limits?

As I’ve frequently admitted there are submissive acts that I will not perform. This is true I think of almost everybody (I’m allowing for exceptions more on principle than anything else).

Some things would violate my sense of sexuality, my aesthetics, propriety or myself. Some are simply so boring that I’d rather not have a D/s relationship than put up with them. I’m sure the latter sounds terribly superficial. But I’m only going to be alive for so long. Boredom is a form of death.

I can only support so long a suspension of my personality, suppression of my enthusiasm and interests. If I don’t enjoy it why do it? BDSM isn’t some sort of morality check. Leave that to the Baptists.

Being with the wrong person is worse than being alone. Having lived through the former I don’t ever want to go there again.

Having written of them I’m not going to summarize my own hard limits again. They are between Alexandra and myself. Since I’d hate to lose her I hope they never prove an issue.

But you must have some. And not just those of you who identify as submissive persons. Dominants have places they will not go. The acts invoke a sense of disgust, alienation or merely seem ugly and inappropriate.

What are some of the things you cannot tolerate? Wouldn’t endure, would never inflict?

Share with me your limits.