Submissive Males & Impotence
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Results from a survey of 800 men. Questionnaire research should never be taken too seriously. You don’t know what implicit biases were in the wording or the selection of the respondents.
It shouldn’t be, say the New England Research Institutes. In a study published in the American Journal of Epidemiology, the Watertown, Mass.-based organization analyzed nearly 800 men of whom more than 160 had erectile dysfunction, and found that men who are submissive are much more likely to develop erectile dysfunction than those who are not — and that problem can’t be cured by the little blue pill.
Submissive Men More Likely to Suffer Erectile Dysfunction

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Many Dominant Wives enjoy taunting their husbands as they get ready for their day, openly displaying their naked sexuality. For the male with a low libido and who is impotent, this can be especially frustrating. This is a common bedroom power technique that has been used by Females for ages. A Woman who displays her naked beauty represents great power over the male and for many males their deeply rooted submissive psychological problems are the cause for them to have failed erections. These failures only intensify during these times causing them even greater humiliation and embarrassment. These conditions are often lasting and can cause long time issues of low sexual confidence. Most submissive males do not understand this condition and frequently blame their inability to become aroused on a variety of other factors rather than the condition of their male submissive impotence.
It has been clear to me for many years that males who exhibit the most significant sexual difficulties are often sexually repressed and submissive in the bedroom. In many relationships the sexual problems begin as young men as they are in awe of a Female with such power. When it is exhibited they recoil in fear with apprehension. Most young couples do not understand what is going on and instead of embracing the condition of male submissive impotence they will often look outside of the relationship for an answer rather than looking to what is going on inside the mind of the male. The recognition of submissive male impotency is a common condition that makes the penis less relevant if it is understood that intense please can be had with other sexual techniques instead of relying on penetrative sex to provide the Woman with her sexual pleasure. For the male who is incapable of performing in this fashion the couple will have years of frustraion and Instead of looking for solutions in the right areas will suffer years of unhappiness rather than trying to uncover the root cause of buried issues that stem from male submissive desires and impotency. Often male impotence and erectile dysfunction are symptoms of submissive sexuality and point to significant unresolved conflicts that exist between a couple.
It is not at all unusual for the submissive male to have had significant sexual difficulties over a period of many years. Often which which precede the relationship. It is likely he will honestly admit to having had these limitations, but will instead try to hide his inability to satisfy a Woman with penetrative sex. Over time it is typical that the submissive male will eventually lose much of his sexual function. Whether it is psychological or is the affect of testosterone reductions is unclear. However, what is known is that as the male becomes more submissive the frequency, length, and rigidity of erections will gradually decline.
Posted by: Paige Harrison | November 22, 2005 9:35 PM
Did I get my submissive feelings and desires because I couldn’t satisfy my wife with penetrative sex or was it just the other way around? Fact is that when I had an erection I ejaculated the moment I entered her. It was more and more difficult to get one too. So the only way to give my wife an orgasm is by orally serving her. And after my prostate operations I hardly had an erection at all, semi hard at the best, and also I couldn’t ejaculate anymore. So my orgasmic feelings now almost are gone. Yet serving my wife orally gives me great pleasure.
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Posted by: appy | November 26, 2005 7:28 AM
Don’t’cha just love performance anxiety? I mean, if there is a single flag on a ruination target’s journey from strong confident love to slave wrapped around my [little finger/boot heel/clitoris:choose one, but tell me which one you choose!] that I can see as a turning point, its the first time they get ED. Pretty soon they know they can’t satisfy you as a real man should, and you can use it for anything they choose to get their little panties in a bunch for: Taking a lover? What do they expect, you to go without regular sex just because they can’t do it? “Excessive Shopping” (if there is such a thing?) on their credit cards? Well, its a poor substitute for feeling “loved” and/or “sexy” (like they might cause you to doubt yourself?), isn’t it? (BTW, those two can be combined into shopping for sexy things for your lover) — Just think about the other options available…
Posted by: Miss Jeni | October 15, 2006 1:54 PM