Cute Suffering

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As a young man at the very beginning of an actual amatory life a couple of guys told me that I looked dangerous in a sexy way. As someone who poses a danger only to himself through his clumsiness this was gratifying.

Even as a youth and not wholly unpretty I never thought of myself as cute.

So it was a surprise to have Alexandra tell me that I look cute when suffering. Sexy but unexpected. Perhaps the last quality a bottom thinks of exhibiting.

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“Cute” is perhaps not such an unusual adjective to apply to a pet.

It’s not one I’ve applied to a man suffering; I tend to find that more transcendent.

Eileen tells me pretty frequently these days that she likes the way I look when I’m in pain. Hearing her say this has never failed to rouse my libido, though I still maintain I’m not the traditional masochistic submissive.

‘Cute’ can also mean different things to different people. Sometimes I’m sure I use ‘cute’ just to denote that it’s visually pleasing and sexy.

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Richard

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