Caged Penis: Me in Chastity?
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Midori writes of the pleasure and power she felt when playing with a friend wearing a chastity device. *
The chastity device when applied with clarity of intent, became the fulcrum around which my power was magnified. He was very turned on by my dominance, which in turn made him hard, and then extremely uncomfortable. That cycle would emphasize his state of submission even more in his head. … *
Clarity of intent: we can’t always divine the sources of our impulses and needs but we are apt to be happier if we can get at them. I’m also glad that Midori doesn’t say something like “male ego.” As if enforced chastity is easier on a female.
Alexandra surprised me when she recently expressed an interest in enforced chastity (not that we hadn’t had some conversations before, see the links at the bottom).
The purity of my need to submit has continued to increase. Similarly Alexandra’s pleasure in my submission seems to be growing stronger. There’s probably some correlation but I can’t guess exactly how.
Speaking only from my side of the elegant equation that is our romance let me clarify my intent.
A phallic prison that not only stops me from caressing myself but also makes an erection uncomfortable will keep me in touch with my slavish component.
My hope is that it will make it easier for me to transition into the slave role when it otherwise might not be.
It should at least be an interesting experiment and learning experience.
Maybe more.
An earlier attempt: Penis Confinement: An Experiment in Symbolic Surrender and Penis Confinement: A Follow-up.
* From: Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink Educational, Sensual, and Entertaining Essays.
Part 1 of 4.
Comments
It has been 3 years & 5 mos since I have touched my penis. My Mrs/wife has enjoyed every minute of my lockup. She started with just try it for a few days & see if you like it. The few days became weeks & then a month. Then she said that we needed a contract to increase my understanding of chastity. The initial contract was nothing like the one that is in force now, because I signed it without paying attention to “Mrs has the right to change or modify this contract at anytime, Jason does not.” The contract is now 11 pages long in small print. I sometimes daydream about being able to just touch my penis. I look at act like an ordinary husband, but my Mrs owns me and directs my every waking moment. My advice do not let yoursself be tricked, coerced, or forced into a chastity device.
Posted by: jane formerly Jason | August 8, 2006 2:55 PM
If it is that bad why don’t you tear up the contract and take off the chastity device?
Posted by: Richard | August 8, 2006 3:08 PM