Male Chastity Devices : Their Erotic Power

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I’ve speculated that enforced chastity may appeal to some men’s vanity. They are so virile and potent that their sexuality must be controlled.

Any fretting I may have done about my manliness ended so long ago that it has been forgotten. Attractive sexual partners were available for mutual objectification (also known as hot sex). When I was young I pursued orgasms. But my probably excessively romantic nature left me less penis driven than most men.

Alexandra and I will use what is - for me - a compromise device: I’m perpetually poor.

It may have been missed in my earlier post that mostly because of the enormous hurt done to me by my prior relationship I’m less orgasmic than I should be. And I do have enough masculine pride to hate admitting this.

If told to not masturbate it is easy to refrain. The “solitary vice” has grown boring. How sad. I could easily become asexual. That wouldn’t be good for me. Alexandra certainly doesn’t want this.

Thus the importance of placing my penis in captivity. Being deprived of the ability to have an erection, to touch myself will cause denial to be very sexual. Much better to burn with frustrated desire than to be frigid.

Psychological chastity won’t give me a much to be desired set of blue balls.

Comments

Firstly, thank you for the personal comments you made on my blog site yesterday. Having now browsed your sites, it amazes me you had the time or interest to provide any guidance at all!

I have quickly realized your blog and website provides sufficient information to keep me occupied for several weeks. It seems if I’m to be serious about exploring a female led lifestyle, I’ll have a great deal of research reading ahead of me during the Christmas period and beyond.

I felt it necessary to post a comment on your site, it’s just I wasn’t sure where to leave it. In fact, I find it a little daunting to navigate my way around your sites. There is just so much information and counsel.

Anyway, thanks again, and I hope you’ll look in on my progress from time to time, and perhaps even steer me in the right direction when I seem to falter.

Touche’. That’s the other reason I have the pet masturbate on a regular basis. Can’t have him losing interest.

There’s always teasing.

I’d like to get where I can have “tantric” non-ejaculatory orgasms. I’ve had a couple in my life but that was by accident. It was pretty amazing to have my body shudder like that but nothing come out.

My mind is moderately boggled by the fact that there is an ad from Amazon for a “leather chastity thong” on this page.

Admittedly, it’s through one of their independent merchants. But still.

I guess this is going mainstream.

Richard- there’s a book at www.stockroom.com called “the multi-orgasmic man” which may help you achieve those tantric orgasms. It worked for me. I never thought men were capable of multiples, or of orgasming without that tired, drained feeling. This book proved me wrong. I’m sure you could get this book other places if you looked around as well. Here’s the addy for the one at the stockroom- http://www.stockroom.com/The-Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Chia—Abrams-P902.aspx

I’d heard of the book but it helps to have the recommendation of someone you respect.

I am all for the use of male chastity devices. I have recently convinced my wife to lock me into a CB 3000 and be my keyholder. We are both very excited about it and look forward to a very satisfying experience for us both.

i am allowed to havve an erection once every three months i failed on my last chance and totally deserve my punishment but i do orgasm every month through anal pleasing except for this time i couldn’t do it. i dont really like to get “hard” anyways.

My wife and I have been living a female dominated lifestyle now for about 3 years. We would not want it any other way. When I am unlocked for small periods of time our relationship tends to get extremely dull and non-sexual. I start jerking off and loose all attraction and sensuality towards her. When I am locked up I miss her while we are apart and cant get enough of her when she is around. When I am not locked up I look at rubber her feet or back as a pain as it would always seem to interfere with what I was doing. Whereas, when I am locked up I cant wait for her to ask so that I can serve her. When she is Horney all I care about is giving her oral sex and pleasing her sexually in every which way I can. To even ask for an orgasm while I am pleasing her orally is seen as inconsiderate and selfish and I would never even think to ask. Yes she has trained me well …though I still have much to learn . We truly believe that male chastity has saved our marriage. We are true believers in the importance of female dominated marriages were the male is chastised so that they think with the head on there shoulders rather than the one between our legs.

My chastity came about one afternoon when my girlfriend caught me wearing a pair of her panties while masturbating. She was furious because I soild the panties and because I wasted a perfectly good erection jacking off. (She later shared that my lovemaking had recently left somethng to be desired anyway.)

I was immediately the object of her rage and she ordered me to submit to being handcuffed and blindfolded. I then had all of my clothes cut off me and was led to the back of her SUV whereupon she drove me to a friend’s house aome miles away.

The friend turned out to be a wickedly sadistic older lady who took me down to her basement, slapped a temporary chastity device onme, and padlocked me me into a small dog cage.

I was told by her that she would be “boarding me” at the request of my girlfriend and that a permanent, custom, chastity belt would be fitted on me in a couple of weeks.

My cut off clothes were then burnt in front of me and I was told that the entire duration of my boarding (several months) would be endured completely naked.

Wher cage was then shoved back into a hole in the wall and a heavy iron door was closed and locked over the opening.

The last thing I heard was my girlfriend nd her friend laughig at my plight as they turned off the lights and walked up the stairs.

i love male chastity devices, i have had them on me for 20 years and now from my new wife. she only takes me out to clean myself, or for her use, i am only allowed to cum when told ,this is not much and lots of time she uses it to get off and say take it out now ,she hits the full balls until it’s soft to go back in. i have been with her for 12 years now and loving it.

Oh, god I wish I had the nerve to talk to my soon to be wife, tell her I want to be locked away so to speak.

Pity you don’t feel like being honest with your wife. It isn’t fair to marry her if she really doesn’t know about your sexuality.

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My thanks,
Richard

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