Male Milking : Keeping it Healthy
» Chastity
Since it is one of the most objectifying, subjugating acts imaginable my own wet dreams have often featured being milked via prostate massage.
Here and there and in comments on one of my own earlier notes I see men saying that chastity and milking are part of their D/s relationship. Some claim they are milked once a month or less.
I’d like to think they are just letting their fancy run amok.
Why?
And … higher elevations of ejaculation appear to protect men from developing prostate cancer,” said [Michael] Leitzmann, a physician and investigator at the National Cancer Institute. …
Frequent ejaculations may protect against diseaseThe earlier Australian study published in July 2003 by the Cancer Council Victoria found that the more often men ejaculated between the ages of 20 and 50, the less likely they were to suffer from prostate cancer.
Stringent orgasm restriction is fine if that is what the couple enjoys. But - even though the studies aren’t conclusive - it is probably in everyone’s long-term best interest if the guy is milked at least once a week.
Not to be a Pollyanna but keeping a pet, slave, whatever healthy is a duty.



Comments
I do believe every Doctor and study are not the same. I have a urologist whom has been a client of mine for a few years, He tells Me once a month is fine. I would not say you are a pollyannaa, just looking out for others, Safe and real! Good Post Richard!
Posted by: Mistress V | December 31, 2005 11:03 AM
I was just feeling a little concerned for the guys in long-term relationships. But the ejaculation frequency / prostate cancer connection is tenuous and provisional at best.
Thanks.
Posted by: Richard | December 31, 2005 4:12 PM
I have been more or less continually locked in a Lori’s tube for almost three years now. My wife only unlocks me when she has first put me in restraint and can’t use my hands. This is usually for showering together. Then, she puts the tube back on before unlocking my wrists
As for sexual release - she has given me a choice. I can go one month and then get unlocked for a vibrator/massager induced ejaculation, or I can get a weekly prostate milking.
I can hardly ever last the entire month and usually end up a week or two shy before I have to ask for a milking. But the month starts over then.
Prostate milking/massage gets rid of the urge but in itself is not pleasurable. There is no orgasm or ejaculation. Semen just drips and flows out slowly until I am drained.
Posted by: been there | April 17, 2006 10:33 AM
That kind of mechanical manipulation of sexuality has always struck me as powerfully humbling.
Do you get any emotional satisfaction from it or is your life simply one of sexual frustration and nothing else?
Posted by: Richard | April 17, 2006 11:11 AM
in reference to “been there”, milking is NOT supposed to be pleaurable. my Mistress “milks” me continuously until i only “feel” an orgasm without comming any longer. It is degrading and ultimately painful toward the end! Thats the way I like it!
Posted by: steele | April 19, 2006 5:13 PM
So you do find being milked satisfying as it were.
Posted by: Richard | April 19, 2006 8:02 PM
I have always been submissive to females and hence, to my wife. I also have a need for humiliation and being strictly controlled. Being allowed sexual pleasure is a small component of my makeup. Knowing that I am usually unable to last an entire month and having to beg for milking is in its own way, as psychologically satisfying for me as the physical pleasure of orgasm. The wife also enjoys teasing me severly during the month while I am locked down to help ensure I “break” and cannot last.
Posted by: been there | April 20, 2006 10:25 AM
Sure, I understand the feelings.
Nice to see them stated so clearly.
Thanks.
Posted by: Richard | April 20, 2006 10:42 AM
i had my last orgasm on july 24, 2005. i have not been milked or drained or any kind of release. the first two months were difficult to deal with the urge for orgasm, but after that it has not been too bad. if you stay in the moment, it is easy not to masturbate. so one does not even NEED a devise to keep chaste. i never thought i could go a day without an orgasm, but no i have gone 13 months!
Posted by: subboy991 | September 2, 2006 2:51 PM
I think it prudent that the penis is milked every 6 weeks.The prostate should be stimulated in order to prevent cancer. A good idea would be for the Mistress to limit the total number of orgasms her slave has in his future life. So that if he is say 50 and will live till say 80 if he is given release once a month he will have a maximum of 360 orgasms more than enough I think. Of course he could be given the choice of having them at less than 1 month intervals.However it would mean his rationing the remaining ones still ever more stringently. He might consider that he might not live to 80 or that I being 10 years older than him might die before I am 90.Or he might not be able to get it up any more. If he were to be greedy he could use up his allowance in just one year. At which point does he really need testicles.They could be removed as he would not be using them ever again. However I might want him to keep them as they are just delicious to kick punch slap and bite.
Posted by: Big Brenda | November 22, 2006 3:30 PM
There’s no denying that is a novel scheme for orgasm quantification.
Actually the hormones produced by the testes have considerable value to a male throughout his lifespan without regard to mere sexual functioning.
Posted by: Richard | November 22, 2006 4:31 PM
I would like to experience the feeling of milking . I wish their was a local group in Chicago just discussion and a service provided for the males who do not have spouses willing to perform the milking act! I surely do not want to go to my doctor and ask. I do not have a willing partner which will preform the miking on me . I would not do it to myself either! Is their anybody willing to help me! easy5369@yahoo.com
Posted by: Jim | December 6, 2006 7:01 PM
There are fetish clubs in Chicago to which anyone can go. All it takes is the courage to do so. But dominant women usually want more of a reason to interact with a man than his mere desire. They aren’t public utilities.
You can milk yourself. There are even affordable special devices to aid in male prostate milking.
And Chicago has no lack of reliable professional dominatrices who have plenty of experiences milking men.
But just expecting a woman to do this to you as some form of disinterested service is like expecting the Playmate of the Month to sleep with you just because you want her to.
Posted by: Richard | December 6, 2006 7:11 PM
Just found your ‘hobby’ site and very interesingit is!
Interested in milking/understanding it and perhaps experiencing too. Also milking machines. Ignorant on the subject!
Thanks Eric
Posted by: R. Eric Nelson | December 7, 2006 4:19 PM
I guess I should write a milking FAQ. There are a few entries on the subject here, just dig around.
Posted by: Richard | December 7, 2006 4:36 PM
Nice site and good information. I wish I could find a clinic close to me or a good dominatrices close intrested in milking me once a month during the day. I’m 53 and do not get enough sex now and need a milking now and then!
Jimbob
Posted by: jimbob | July 16, 2007 3:42 PM
I just stumpled on this sight. I was trying to find information on prostate milking. I would love to do this to my submissive husband but need to know more about how to do it. If there is anyone that has actually done this please send me an email at GoddessAnnOhio at yahoo. I have a lot of questions I don’t want to post here.
Posted by: Goddess Ann | August 25, 2007 4:49 PM