Ruined Orgasms

I LOVE ruining an orgasm. Instead of letting go at the point of ejaculation, I like to stop it with my finger or palm, etc, feel it build up and let it go. Sometimes it shoots up, other times it just pours down. Either way I find it hightly amusing. I have numerous other ways I like to interrupt the orgasm. I have just let go at the point of orgasm but it is not as fun for me to watch.

As I said earlier, I love to block the ejaculation, then watch it spurt out(sometimes it just pours down which is not as amusing). The other day I blocked the ejaculation and removed my finger and the fluid poured out. This happened several times. I call this “Bleeding the Orgasm”. Althought it is not as amusing to watch. I know that it is truly ruining the orgasm actually causing pain and removing any sensation of pleasure, In other words, the man has the build up which I love bringing him to that plateau but never a release. I Love this. It is not enough for me to deny a man an orgasm or let go I have to somehow intercept and change the orgasm. I will be back and tell you about “Thwacking” soon. xo Mistress Taylor

Now, that’s real torture, and yet it does not involve physical damage to Mistress’s property.

Any Mistress with an imagination can think of variations to continue the torment for hours. While Her slave is “cooling off” between stimulations, of course, She can — depending on if or how She has Her slave immobilized — allow him to bring Her to another orgasm with his slave tongue, of course.

Finally, the strongest and most obedient slave will fail, and the cum will come. Then, the final chapter of the evening’s story: he licks it from Her glove, Her boot, the floor, or wherever he has the misfortune to disobey Her command that he may not cum, while She, if it pleases Her, punished his disobedience with Her whip or otherwise at Her pleasure. Perhaps, then, She may graciously accept his fervent apology and permit him to give Her one final orgasm in atonement before locking him in his cage and stretching out on Her soft bed to sleep.

Isn’t this a lovely fantasy?

My former wife had a means of conrollong my orgasm i have never heard read about before. By placing a catheter into my penis and stoppong just above the prostate, my ejaculate is blocked. Rather than cumming, my semen passes retrograde into the bladder. There is no peasurable sensation. I am completely at her mercy and not allowed to ejaculate on my own.

I have practised Chastity Control on my sissy sub for two years. There nothing funnier than ruining his orgasm after hes waited two months for it. I basically restrain him so he cant move, then masturbatedhim. At the moment he cums, I squeeze the base of his cock HARD between my thumb and finger. This complete ruins the orgasm, stopping the muscle contractions, and leaving and the semen to dribble out. This I follow with a stiff whipping, and the cock restraint is placed straight back on. This is usually enough to produce some very pleasing tears of pain and frustration, and of course, total obedience for two more months.

If I ever arrive for a spanking with an erection, I am told to get a towel and return for a milking. She calmly lowers my panties just enough to remove my hard penis, which is stroked methodically and without much talk in a very businesslike manner. The moment any spasm is detected, she lets go. My hands are behind my back and I ejaculate in a most unsatisfactory display of stupid male behavior. I almost dance around as my penis is looking for something…anything…to touch, but, alas, none is forthcoming. When I’ve stopped dripping, (I’ve messed the towel, of course), she simply pulls my panties back up. When I’d normally have them lowered for the bare bottom part of my spanking, instead, they’re pulled up into my bottom crack, leaving my bottom exposed for the spanking I’ve earned, but now my penis and other private parts are encased in the nylong panties. My penis is VERY sensitive and spankings are more painful just after a milking….and, of course, being milked is a humiliating way to start my punishment.

A side benefit to ruining an orgasm is the mistress is able to do it more than once, since a satisfying orgasm has not been reached. I love to combine a ruined orgasm with some kind of pain, esp. ballbusting. Not only does the male not receive an orgasm when his body expects it, but testicular pain is substituted. Paddling the testicles with my fingers as he’d dribbling out his ruined orgasm is very amusing for me. - Mistress Lauren

Fantasize: After a ruined orgasm the slave has a short time limit to acheive ogasm. Of course the mistresses limit is always seconds to short. OR She ties the base of his penis tightly, after full erection & watches with amusemsnt as the poor thing pounds away until she is satisfied with its colour.

I love ruined orgasms. I have shoot a lot of tease and denial and ruined orgasm videos. Recently, I have been hiring a lot of new girls and porn guys instead of slaves. I tell the girls I hire what they will be doing before the guy gets there and they have all been extremely excited while some have been a little freaked out. I don’t tell the guy what will happen because I love to see the look on his face when it happens and there is nothing he can do about it. I also love to watch how much fun the girl is having. I have done sessions for years with slaves that were into orgasm control, ruined orgasm etc and I have tons of fun with them but there is something really fun about doing this to someone who has never experienced it or watching a female experience doing it for the first time. I did a session with a new 19 year old dom that I just shot in a tease and denial Ruined Orgasm video last night. I had been seeing the slave for about 10 years and although he likes tons of heavy cbt I have never ruined his orgasm. For years I send him home from our sessions with a beat up cock very turned on to have sex with his wife. This time was different, as I trampled him the other dom was slapping his cock as hard as she could. Out of nowhere, she started stroking his cock really fast he started to cum and she quickly blocked it removed her hand. With each spurt of orgasm she kept blocking and removing her hand. He was tied up and could not move so she kept stroking it trying to get him hard so she could do it again.

like squeezing firmly at the base of the penis to prevent release of fluid there is a spot between the penis and anus that, when pressure is applied, also prevents release. it can be felt by a small indentation and pushing on it with a single finger seems to work very well. have fun.

It seems to me 3 other factors can reduce the fun. One is what i call the over beaten beast - that is the fantasy getting you there while mastrubation is done is removed again and again. Eventually it is almost impossible to cum and when you do it is limp, this less enjoyable. The other is water, i don’t get the same enjoyment when i am mastrubated wet.
Hot and cold Last anbody any experience ?

Ma77:

The perienium. Certainly a part of the male body that can produce some unusual responses and sensations. I’m surprised it doesn’t show up more often in descriptions of BDSM play.

iwonderunder:

One of the things you describe is an alternative form of “milking” in which penis pain is induced by repeated stimulation. Something I’d like to experience but never have.

I don’t quite understand what you mean about water.

Yesterday I could feel the erotic power of my mistress as if she was in my room. But she was not. She was on a far away distance and ordered me by telephone. I could hear how horny she was and how she enjoyed possessing me. Since 10 days she owns me and it feels like it has never been else before. Since that day she has forbidden me any orgasm and I don’t know why, but I obey her in every way. And it turns m on.

She enjoys knowing her slave obeys her in every detail.

At first she wrote she expected me to mail her first how I love to be hers. If my words shouldn’t satisfy her, she would neglect me that day.

But I know how to satisfy her..

I had to lay down on the floor, bottom up, a slave waiting for his mistress’ phonecall.

When she would phone me -without speaking one word- I had to whip myself “as long as you think you need it. When you think it’s enough, you ask me to hold on.”.

Of course she was not satisfied and ordered to give 25 more till my little ass was red and my cock hard.

She told me how she was laying on her bed, naked and relaxed like a lazy animal using her vibrator exactly as she wanted to. She told me though my good behaviour not to expect any orgasm that day. While it arouses her to know I was locked up in her will and I was only there to please her. Then she laughed and ordered me to drip hot wax on every part of my naked body, meanwhile telling her in every detail how I seduced and fucked my wife the last time I had the opportunity.

“And I don’t want to hear any thrill in your voice when the wax is dripping painfully at your skin and specially your hard cock, cause you know where I want them the most, my naughty boy”.

It was difficult to obey her strict wishes, the wax was dripping everywhere, also at my hard cock and that was very painful. So I could not control my voice and obey her high standard and she immediately ordered me to slap my hard cock with a leather cane. “Starting with 20 times”, she said, “and be happy that I am not so cruel, because I could order you 100!”

I did not know what was happening to me, because this slapping is the most painful punishment and every time I have to do it, she gets enormous orgasms because my pain turns her on. And so it does me! I begged her please to train and discipline me that I could slap my hard cock 100 times for her!! She laughed and said that she was not the person to decline my request. She ordered me to slap ..now.. and.. now, she dictated my rhythm and forced me to listen to her fourth or fifth delicious orgasm.

Then my mistress ordered me by her horny voice to jerk myself. As if she was not so strict at once. But when she heard I was coming, she stopped me and laughed. And repeated this orgasm denial several times till I was so desperate that I begged her to stop torturing me this way. With her sweetest voice she said: “My little slave, you may come now but I want you to ruin your orgasm. When you feel you will come, I want only a poor little stream of sperm is coming out, but I don’t want any exaltation for you. Do you understand? Jerk for me. Now!”

How can I describe the feelings of desire and disappointment of my tortured body and mind? It is impossible. Even for me… Only when you, men and boys, will have such a splendid perverse mistress as mine, you could imagine that feeling.

Thank you, my perverse mistress for using me this way.

Luuk, Holland

I have been in chastity since the CB2000 came out. It was largely unsatisfactory as my scrotum was too tight and bunched up. A long period of ball stretching did wonders and by the time the CB3000 appeared, I could wear it for quite long periods.

All my ejaculations are supervised and controlled by my wife and I am only permitted if I have been a very good boy in the preceeding month. If I have been less than satisfactory, I will be given a ruined orgasm, which to me is worse than no orgasm at all.

I am secured (handcuffed behind my back), and leaned over a low hassock on the coffee table. The wife uses her gloved finger to massage my prostate while very slowly pulling/stroking my penis.

As soon as she feels any contractions internally, she stops the massage and releases my penis. After a few cycles of this, I am desperate to cum, but she has become an expert in judging how close to the edge she can bring me without triggering an actual ejaculation.

Eventually, just at one of my impending orgasms, she will release my penis and keep slowly massaging my prostate. A few globs of semen will dribble out in a totally ruined ejaculation onto the saucer below me. After I stop dripping, she repeats the sequence over and over. It usually takes five or six cycles of this until my dribbling has emptied me completely and no more semen can be produced.

The frustration can be incredible and I am often “humping the air”, (to her amusement)desperately trying to get any stimulation at all when she ceases her massage and stroking.

Of course, when it’s all over, she “recycles” what has dripped into the saucer.

M’lady enjoys stroking Her cock to the brink of orgasm and denying Her slave the oppurtunity to have an orgasm, and repeats this process of stroking and teasing until Her slave is going crazy with frustration and begging to even be milked even though he knows that he will be even more frustrated after he feels Her cum dribble from Her cock…

i have recently got into ruined orgasms after years of enforced orgasm control both self and from my Mistress, i have been trained to hate cuming and g ofor long periods with no orgasm whilst masturbating every day, i have such an empty feeling after cuming and a ruined orgasm adds to the feeling of worthlessness and reduces the feeling of male worth, i usually asl to cum straight into my own mouth when i do cum properly its the only reason i can see for a full ejeculation. ruining the orgasm also maintains the sexual frustration whilst removing the full feeling i enjoy so much.

My girlfriend has trained me to remain completely still while she milks my cock, teases my balls and nipples, and anus. I cannot react in any way, and must continue to have normal conversation with her, or makes me tell her how submissive i feel and how my cock belongs to my mistress. The whole time she keeps me on the brink of orgasm, not knowing if she will let me cum. Sometimes, after being denied orgasm, I am ordered to sleep behind behind mistress in the spooning position with my cock inside her, but I cannot move.

Sick women; even sicker men. And sickest of all, those men who read about it and get excited.

FungBung, you are wrong. Its harmless fun between loving couples and requires alot of trust.

My girlfriend uses the head of my penis to masturbate herself to orgasm. I cannot cum as I am over stimulated by the whole thing, and find myself trapped in a curious world of pleasure and pain. The moans I make in my discomfort add to my girlfriends pleasure who cums multiple times, then when she finally has had enough she allows me to masturbate whilst staring into her eyes as her tounge flicks out into my mouth. Occasionally she will let me cum, tapping my balls lightly as I do, others she will hit my balls hard enough to take all desire of masturbation away from me, at which point she will walk away and leave me to recover.

We love each other very much.

ruined orgasms, is painful but sweet,as my wife, loves for me to go weeks without cumming. as i have to go down on her as she say, or put it in her so she can feel a hard dick. i am not too cum until told too, i have go fast or slow ,after she has all the orgasm she wants she says take it out or she does it. she graps my balls and pulls them up in the air hard until my dick goes soft. i go down and kiss her pussy , and i sleep nude. i am not to play with myself never. as i steal reb. once .i didn’t get to cum before she saw me. she whip my dick and balls so much they hart for weeks. and steal had to gave it to her . it was 3 month before she let me cum again.and then i had to eat it.the best part is she cums harder when she make me have a ruined orgasm. and she does it as she seating on my face. as iam eating and drying her up. ps. she glad i find this place .and so am i thanks

wow, some lucky people there!! I was wondering if anyone knew some devious ways to truly ruin an orgasm, the whole enjoyment of the masturbating and cumming thing.

I am heavily into having my pleasure decided by a female based on my past performance or behaviour or just because she thinks i do/dont deserve the pleasure.

Abandoning is obvious but what about ways to take all pleasure away. Perhaps weeks of denial followed by 2 hours of porn and then a 30 second wank into a blocked O, things like that that truly take away the whole enjoyment.

For me the stroking working up to even a ruined orgasm is so enjoyable and if my mistress says i dont deserve any pleasure i want to be able to show her your suggestions.Anyone?

Especially interested in ways of making an abandoned orgasm even less stimulating wth only the tinest drop of cum dribbling out each time to prolong the torture

I was once locked in a CB6k for a month. when we met, i was secured to a chair facing a TV. cock unlocked, made me watch a full length sm movie. i was timed me with a stop watch whenever my cock gets hard enough to lift off the chair. after the movie, i was masturbated for the duration of the time i was hard during the movie and ordered not to cum. punishment was, the jerking will continue for the full duration whether or not i cum. if i manage to hold off cumming, i will be given 30sec to explode. i managed it throughout without cumming, but the 30 sec… my cock was not touched at all! i was locked back into the cb6k for another month totally frustrated.