5 Kinks : A Boy and His Genitals

I was surprised to discover how strongly my pet responded to CBT. I was attracted to it for the usual reason: as you said, a man can’t get much more vulnerable than that.

I am very grateful to Aspirant for mentioning those little dollar store plastic hair clips. The things are vicious, and I like the way they look better than clothespins. Groups of bamboo skewers fastened together with adhesive tape (a “lazy top toy” I got at a Christmas exchange many years ago) are also quite effective. Though skewers can be used on their own as little tiny canes…my pet hates that.

I bought a couple of thin rubber-stranded (“koosh”) whips, and use the tiny keychain one exclusively on my pet’s dangly bits.

That isn’t his favorite way to have his penis mishandled; he really enjoys just having his penis and testicles squeezed, which I find very gratifying too. I find this often works particularly well when he is pleasuring me; he gets off on it and becomes, if possible, more enthusiastic in his efforts. I think occasionally of Aspirant, whose Master squeezes his balls when she comes. But I think more often of Jack Rinella, who delights in torturing his slave’s genitalia while his own are being serviced. A comment he made in one of his books about telling his slave about that being the “natural order of things” struck home. I appreciate the symmetry, and I appreciate how it underlines our various positions. I’m a little leery intellectually of telling my pet that he was “made to be {insert being on the receiving end of some activity here}”. But it works for both of us.

Even light genitorment or genital domination - leashing - takes me into the deepest sense of enslavement.

I remember that photo of Aspirant’s genitals. I keep meaning to run those clips by Alexandra and see what she thinks. Aesthetics are very important to her and I can’t always anticipate her taste.

I saw some of those skewers in a store the other day and thought of you. I’d been trying to remember if you’d said exactly how you use them. Would you mind describing it?

I had one bad experience. She struck my testicles but the pain registered in my side. Knocked me completely out of the scene I think. I can’t recall if it was the intensity or simply shock and confusion because it felt like an injury. I haven’t seen anyone else talk of this so it was probably just one of those never to be repated flukes.

Being told that I’m a “mere creature,” “just a slave,” “meant only for … ” can be wonderful in D/s. It is sort of magically true - not in a bad way - for a time. The part of me that wants to be mere property also wants to feel lowly.

well i injoy my genitale ,hit. pulled and about anythage. as iam writing my wife/misterss has my in a ball stacher with 4pds. on them. with rings on the dick. i clean house, read with this on all the time ..and i love it on when it’s off she knows i hate it, the ove the pulling of them

I have only been practicing BDSM for about a year and half but I immediately took my place as mistress and started walking all over my slave. He loves it. My wonderful little pet is notorious for being a bad boy during our fun by insulting me and such just to get torture more. I have found his favorite is having his balls brutally squeezed but because I am too well aware about how much this pleases him i often bring in needles and threats of removing them. This too seems to have quite the effect on him. Very wonderful fun CBT.