5 Kinks : Herbs, Spices and CBT

Hot CBT

Long ago as a young fool I put wintergreen oil on my penis thinking it might make masturbating more fun. Thank goodness for cold running water. Several years ago when making chili I crushed a habanero pepper with my fingers. Then I scratched my balls. That made for a lively fifteen minutes.

As I have come to trust Alexandra and my masochism has focused on reality, genitorment is a form of sadomasochistic play that increasingly excites me. But Alexandra had no way of knowing that when I crafted an initial reference entry Chemical CBT with her in mind. (As long as we’re talking about herbal torments I’m also interested in Figging.)

There is a huge potential drawback to using something like ginger, cinnamon or capcaisin for cbt. Once started the top can do only a little to stop it. Alexandra would have to accept that I might whimper and writhe for, say, half an hour. A masochist has a responsibility to the sadist to not pull the latter into an experience for which she isn’t ready. This is most certainly not about the dominant being weak but wanting to take responsibility for the pain inflicted.

As I explained to her this for me is much the same as that amazing evening with the MCD. But that night she was able to direct my every moment. With something like Icy Hot I’d be under her power but not completely under her control for a time.

This is kind of like Electro-play. Far beyond issues of power exchange is my responsibility to never talk her into going into acts that might make her regret her actions.