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Testicle Weights
Why my scrotum should be so eroticized in BDSM baffles me. Like most men I never gave my scrotal sac much thought unless I bumped into something or sat down on it.
Maybe it is the simple vulnerability of my testes that causes the act of her manipulating or controlling them to knock me so deeply into surrender. The phallus is tough but these small objects are the tenderest spot on a man’s body. (I’d say it is an argument against Intelligent Design if I didn’t understand that the retractability serves a purpose.)
I’ve felt wholly enslaved when Alexandra has leashed them. My mind starts to spin off into I know not where when she’s tapped them lightly with the foot of her boot.
Perhaps it is part of my ongoing maturing within BDSM that I’ve come to appreciate forms of play where duration replaces intensity. Or I’m indulging in fancy hypocrisy. After all I did want to order those prickly testicle weights the day I saw them. Though if we owned every toy I wanted my house would need to be twice as large. Well, most revealing of all is the big metal bell I’ve kept set aside since I read the story where the guy had something similar attached to his balls. (See the second image. It doesn’t quite do justice to how foolish he looks in an earlier part of the story where it makes a noise every time he moves.)
Anyway I made an effort to share with Alexandra how happily foolish and hungry this sort of bodily control leaves me feeling.
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We need that disco track “You can ring, ring, ring, ring my bell” :)
Posted by: Alexandra | November 22, 2006 8:23 PM
I’ve always liked to play with balls, both in S&M and vanilla sex. One of my favorite turn-ons in vanilla sex is to play with a man’s balls, in my mouth or fingering the balls through the scrotal sac. It’s the men who say they never touch themselves there or who are most worried about being touched in such a sensitive area that have the biggest reactions to this. I think its the trust issue that makes this such a thing for me.
Men, even light-weights are usually physically stronger than women. The balls are the weak spot. It’s this vulnerability that makes then such a S&M hot button. The expression “got him by the balls” didn’t come from nowhere.
Posted by: Blue | November 24, 2006 5:01 PM
A testicle leash is instant omnipotence. And I can’t think of a fetish device that sent a jolt through me like the first time I read about The Humbler.
Kind of wish I knew why but sometimes I guess I’m just going to have to enjoy things in ignorance.
Posted by: Richard | November 24, 2006 5:13 PM