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The sun will rise tomorrow. A statement as unsurprising that Alexandra and I were talking about shoes and boots today. [Actually yesterday: I forgot to publish this entry.]
As her return comes nearer my need grows stronger. Shouldn’t it work the other way?
It isn’t just the D/s and S&M cravings. There’s the simple happiness of coming home and seeing her.
But given this weblog’s orientation …
Lickorish Lineworks has some novel depictions of shoe worship and human furniture.
Toward the end of our chat I found myself drifting off, thinking of licking her boots.
Or her feet.
It isn’t a strict distinction but when I think of her feet it doesn’t have anything to do with D/s: pure pleasure in her person.
Surround her feet with PVC or leather and I become a hungry groveler.
It is getting harder to sleep at night. Sheer want pounding at me.
Sounds like I’m bitching but I’m not. I know what I enjoy and the pleasure she takes in my adoration. Happy anticipation is inflaming me.
He looks very much at peace, doesn’t he? Bishop had such a gift.
There’ve been times I’ve worried that my lips and tongue could wear out my welcome. But no one would be more surprised if that were to ever happen than she.
In a way I’m almost basking my hunger.
Long ago I thought of buying special footstool, pillow or cushion to place under her feet when I worship them.
One of my fantasies is that she puts on each and every pair of boots and shoes and uses me as her human shoeshine. I thought Lady Carole had a site but can’t find it.
Looking online today it was mighty annoying to find that I only liked the $800 footstools. The cheaper models looked too cheap.
I’m sure I’ll find something.
Probably a cushion. Brings back an early dream I had of us. Stretched out on the floor with my head on a pillow between her feet. Resting there, inhaling her scent.
So surprising how this fetish sometimes consumes me. Her boots can crush me, kick me or simply accept my proximity.
Comments
Hi Richard I would love to know where my fetish for shoes comes from, I collect womens shoes and sometimes take them to dominatrix prostitutes to wear while she tramples on me and beats me with the shoes .. PS love the site.
Posted by: B.H | November 11, 2005 5:52 PM
While I know my feelings about feet, shoes and boots must have been preexisting on some level it was really Alexandra’s strong pleasure in having her feet and boots worshipped that made it such a strong passion for me.
In tracing my own sexuality I feel that sometimes many of these things begin when we are very young, even in elementary school. And being able to capture the moment that crystallized it within us is mostly a matter of luck.
Posted by: Richard | November 11, 2005 6:13 PM
hello there , i am a Ladies foot/shoe and boot fetishest . i absolutely love grovelling at a Womans feet ,licking, kissing and worshiping their shoes/ boots and them as well . i dont fully understand why i have these urges? but it is so exciting ,i just spin out into a submisive state . Offause ,all my Lady friends take full advantage of me and i love for their plays at me . just last night ,i ended up giving a foot massage to a Lady friend in the pub . I also have a large collection of shoes and boots and have about 10 pairs in my bed at any given time . i actually make love to them as well …kissing sniffing licking etc. Well bye for now ..love the site. dave
Posted by: slaveydave | November 12, 2005 12:32 AM
Hi!
It is funny to see from all the previous message this… need to understand a bit…Why? I have a strong attraction for women wearing thigh high boots (my favorite are black leather with a nice 4”heel).
I think that a real retifism start young. I remember at 4-5 years old wearing woman boots…. now I simply goob and stare at a women that will wear a pair.
Anyway… I wish to know why I am attracted by this fantasy…. I know it is pretty common but a bit strange, I wish to know why but I don’t want to change it, just want to know why so many man are attracted by nice woman shoes.
There is I hope a better explanation than this cheezy freudian Oedipus complex
Bootlover
Posted by: Retifism_aigu | January 5, 2006 11:27 PM
I’ve wondered why myself. In my case it is partly because of how much she enjoys it.
Even if I can never discern the root causes I’ll be forever grateful that she takes such pleasure in allowing me to adore her this way.
Posted by: Richard | January 6, 2006 4:48 PM
Hey
I love high heels, especially black shiny patent ones. I love kissing and licking them and masterbating at the same time. Sometimes i lick and kiss high heels for hours, i just love them.
Posted by: heel lover | January 19, 2006 11:53 AM
I am a very dedicated and compulsive stiletto court shoe fetishist. I have a very large collection of womens stiletto shoes - my favourite being black patent stiletto courts with a 7 inch spiked heel. I am very lucky in the fact that I have a very good lady friend who is training me as her shoe slave. My fantasy to be a live in shoe slave - devoted to my mistress & held in permanent chastity. I have no interest in having sex with women.
Posted by: dave | August 11, 2006 12:43 PM
What is a court shoe?
Posted by: Richard | August 11, 2006 2:14 PM
A stiletto court shoe (UK term) is a stiletto pump shoe.
Posted by: dave | August 13, 2006 5:07 PM