Do Dommes Want Sissies?

You’re right that one size does not fit all here.

The attempt to stereotype people, though, goes beyond that. It is a simple lack of understanding of the very real differences between people. It is easy to see a guy who takes care of his wife and think “He must be a sissy, since he’s different from me”, not understanding that he is simply comfortable with his masculinity but eager to make his wife happy.

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my wife is very dom in many areas of our life.about 4 months ago i told her of my feeling to be fem,we are going to theropy.she likes my submissive behavier.but whishes i wanted to be just a reg man.ive been trying fight my fem feeling my whole life and we a both christians.i tryed to fit into reg man role me trying to be man.worked hard help build our company which she now runs.i hated trying to be in charge and her trying to be submissive which left us fighting and really she ended up in charge and me doing what she said and both resenting the other.we are finely learnig our roles.i know the church says men should rule but it dont work in our lives.we are both working through many feeling.at 44yrs i cant live in a box any longer.many things to work through.my fem is hard for her.she loves me alot we have 2 kids,dont know what i would do without them.thank you

There seem to be a number of heterosexual marriages where the wife is actually able to come to terms with her husband’s femininity. Hope everything continues to work out for the both of you.

Richard, this may sound naive but tell me, are you saying that it is not just fantasy but that yes in fact there are women, wives, girlfriends that are ok with a mans desire to express his femininity? To what extent I imagine varies but I wonder how prevalent this is in our “Puritanical” society? Sure, no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors, but c’mon, are you telling me that it’s not just possible but more probable that I could find this type of female if I asked the right questions? I’ve seen a marked increase of talk of men taking hormones to develop their breasts to their wives satisfaction, but really, how much of this is Bull? Do some women find that attractive or ok? I write you because yes, I too struggle with this feminine stuff and am just not sure how to proceed now that I am single again, any thoughts you or the group might have is welcome, thank you.

There are vanilla women who either accept or enjoy that their spouse sometimes likes to crossdress. Or who even have mtf transsexual partners.

There are also dominant women who make men wear female attire as a form of humiliation.

And all sorts of mixes betwixt and between.

It is very hard to sort out sometimes. Some men pretend to be Dommes online. And my impression is that the men who wish to be feminized but can’t find someone willing to do it to them are among the most common group of faux-Dommes on the web.

How your should proceed? Depends on what your goal is. Do you want to be able to engage in transvestism, have sexual reassignment surgery? Does this include BDSM or not?

A few years ago, when I was just dating my wife.. . I don’t know why, but one day I went out and bought a miniskirt and wore it that evening when I picked her up in the car. This made her wild!! It wasn’t long before her hands were up my skirt and there was no stopping her.

i desire to submit and pleasure a dominant women ewho will humliate me by feminizing me only part of the time i desire to dominate her in some fashion she sees desirable to her s well

I don’t know about Domme’s per se, but my wife uses sissification to put me in my place. A day spent doing housework in feminine attire and she doesn’t have to worry about me being macho or trying to call the shots etc. etc. It doesn’t seem to do anything for her other than keep me under her control. Her biggest motiviation seems to be when she wants to entertain a male friend and doesn’t want any slack from me. I sure don’t like that, but have to admit it is effective.

hey everyone,

just thought i should say hi…since my Daddy’s gone out today and he doesnt know am on this…lol..i’ve been with my Daddy for over 2 years now..and things are great..but lately he’s been bringing home other girls and i get jealous..i throw big tantrums and cry and be naughty, and my Daddy has no choice but to spank me afterwards….the worse part is when my Daddy insists on having me suckle my Nanny’s breasts in front of his guests…its so embarrasing…but i know my Daddy loves me a lot…anyway i gtg…

Baby Christie

It has frequently occured to this cur that members of the inferior male gender are not worthy to aspire to such an exalted condition as Femininity. Women are so obviously superior that it would be close to blasphemy for a slave male to pretend that it is a Female, even a Female servant. Beyond this is the fact that no male could ever hope to do anything as well as She does, so it should not try. It is not a humiliation for a male to be Feminized; it is a presumption above the animal’s station in life.

I think it would be wonderful to never have to worry about the male role and always serve the woman without having sex.

Taking control over my sissy girls just makes my day.

Mistress Vx SCOTLAND

I’m getting sexually when i’m treated as a girl by another woman. This preference belongs to transvestic fetishism paraphilias, which is different to cross-dressing, transvestism or transsexualism. Being dressed as a girl infront of the female and being treated as one makes me very active sexually. Otherways i live and act as a man. If anybody has similar views to mine and would like to share them with me i would be glad to hear from you. Arvid from London UK

my wife is a very dominat women she is a amazon aleast 10 inches taller she love to spread eagal me on the bed and sits on my fACE Smothering me her pussies hairs are unshaved and very thick when she rocks back and forth my nose and mouth are jamed into her folds she can spread her lip over half my face she cumes till she cant cum any more she love to share me with here friends one nite her sister came over and left her dress on and climed up on my face i was in awe she just had sex and all the cum was leaking out my wife grabed hold of my head and held it there as i licked her cleam it was the 1st time i evre tasted a nother mans cum she tell my wife what a good pussie licker i am every time she cum she sit a littel heaver on my face soon the only air i have is in side here and the fear of being smotherd just as im about to fade she lifts her self off me by the end of the nite she has cum 8 times i feel my mistress slip a shaft ring on my dick and soon feel the viberator turn on the feeling of my dick sliding into my wife using me like a dildo causes me to cream into this women the hair is thck with lack of air i start to panic so i bite down on here she let out a load cry and i had some air the to amazon work on me all nite long by morning i couldnt even get off the bed i was drained dry i must have drank a gallon of ther cum my wife and the other mistress just chuckeld telling me get some rest because im going to learn how to suck dick and lots ofit

i am a dominated married male. i must always wear feminine under pants & sleep in very short gowns w/o underpants. i know of ar least 5 other dominated husbands of my Mrs friends who are also required to wear feminine under garments at all times. All of us are in no play marriages, Our Mrs,s totally dominate us. Our marriage did not start out like this but Mrs slowly dominated me in 3 1/2 year time period.Like the wives of yesterday years, i have no money, no rights, I cannot go anywhere. Mrs keeps my drivers license & gives it to me only when she need me to go somewhere after which i must give it back to her. I never fantasized about a life like this. It slowly came about.I very seldom permitted to use the computer, but she left it on & i had a little free time. thanx .

Is it possible to be muscular and sissy? That is what I am. I’m pretty muscular and almost have a six pack. However, I wear womens clothes when my wife makes me. She is 5’4” and I’m 5’11”. We both enjoy it but don’t do it all the time.

Much of gender is perception and performance rather than body.

my mistress keeps her self very secretive, my role is to simple orally pleasure her when im told and she becomes very scolding to me when i cant make it. how can i find out more about her, to be honest, the secrecy is exciting, especially when she tells me my role is to pleasure her when she wants it, and dont ask questions, but i would like to know more

I am seeing a full time domme and have a question.I enjoy meeting my domme from time to time. When we get together she humiliates me while we shop for lingeries and hosiery for me to wear under my clothes. She then takes mt to a bar and forces me to show the female server what i am wearing. We then typically go back to her play space where she takes on a more active domme role. While I take on the slut slave role. How strange am I? Is this something i should be concerned about more than the normal amount of guilt?

There are plenty of men with similar desires.

If this is fulfilling your needs and not harming anyone why should you feel guilty.

My wife since catching me in her panties and bra sucking our neighbors cock and finding out I was a secrect sissy ,now has great pleasure having me as her sissy instead of the big tough guy I pretended to be ,I think she really gets off now dressing me and giving me orders instead of doing as I use to order her to do ,she loves humiliating me ,and making me do humiliating thingsfor her friends and now loves seeing me jump and take her orders