D/s and Ritual
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When I used to fantasize about BDSM I sometimes pictured myself making a formal surrender to my owner the first time we got together.
I saw myself putting on ankle, wrist and neck collars and at each step saying that I was freely surrendering my body, mind, heart, freedom. It seem very moving and humbling.
Ceremonies ordinarily don't appeal to me. But religions and psychological techniques make use of repeated rituals to reinforce certain mental states.
I wonder if any sort of ritual could be used to enrich our times together as Goddess and slave.


Comments
I think rituals that signify male surrender or that affirm female superiority are essential. They can help you assume the right mental attitude and enhance erotic tension. Rituals should involved stripping naked, assuming a submissive position, or reciting statement that affirms female superiority.
The ritual affirms that the slave gets his pleasure from serving and adoring his Goddess. The ritual is a dance that affirms that he only finds meaning kneeling before her beauty and power.
Posted by: houseboy | February 23, 2007 8:52 PM