Femdom Rules
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I’ve written my own rules for voluntarily slavery. Let us take a peek a few of those offered by an intelligent woman who is both a lifestyle Domme and a sometimes professional dominatrix:
6. If the FEMALE is wrong, it is because of a vagrant misunderstanding which was a direct result of something the male said or did wrong.
7. If rule number 6 applies, the male must immediately apologize for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The FEMALE can change HER mind at any given point in time.
The FemDom Rules For Males To Live By
I just grabbed three out of fourteen almost at random.
I hope Mistress V won’t object too much when I say she really knows how to write pornography.
I write often about the need for emotional clarity, compassion and safety. But does a slavishly inclined man ever completely escape the deep-rooted desire to be subject to a woman’s whims and caprices?
I still love dreaming of being the captive of a women whose regulations are subject to instant revision. Indeed made so complicated that failure will often result. Part of you is forever wanting her wrath, to be punished for an error. Even if unfairly.
Some of it is really selfish masochism. But also to be so helplessly surrendered that even fairness itself is abolished.
Nutty perhaps. But dead sexy.
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My wife uses prolonged orgasm denial from my training. We live normal life outside of the bedroom, but in the bedroom the following rules apply:
1) I must wear my “uniform” of a riduculously small thong…and at least pretend that I like it. 2) I am not to speak unless spoken to. 3) I am not allowed to orgasm without permission, including during intercourse (and yes, she had had me stop and put it away for the night without relief…in fact, that is the case more often than not). 4) I am not to have any expectations for training or orgasms. 5) When she is satisfied for the evening, she “dismisses” me and I must immediatly dress and leave the bedroom so she can relax and fall off into sleep. 6) She is to intitiate any training…if I try to do so, at least one extra day is added to my time without orgasm. 7) Obviously, she is never wrong….even if she is wrong! I am to be clearly grateful for any training she offers.
Posted by: Trained Husband | August 14, 2006 4:40 PM
Rule 7 might read “When [not If] Rule number six applies…..” and could even add “…and beg punishment for his transgression.”
And a case could be made that Rule 14 might say that while the FEMALE prevails in any event, the male does get the last word: “Yes, Mistress.”
Posted by: worthless dog | August 24, 2006 10:31 PM
I love this talk about women spanking men. Its your time now I feel. Men are now under pussy power. We are wearing the apron now and waiting on you girls. peter
Posted by: Peter Warden | August 25, 2006 8:25 PM
Heh.
To live under the capricious rule of a sexy and devious woman —- to give up all power and control and expectations —- to even give up basic “human rights”…
Definitely yummy.
Thomas.
Posted by: Mistress Laura's boy | August 26, 2006 4:21 AM
Since signing a formal maid contract 10 months ago my live could not be better. I wear a uniform 24/7 unless I have to run errands, and then I have a full array of undergarments on. She has taken full control of my life and I love it. I would not think of touching myself or doing anything (but housework) without her permission.
Posted by: Kelly | March 22, 2007 12:07 PM
Female Domination is the sexiest and most natural way to have sex or a relationship at all. Females are superior. Females rule! Pussy power is the true meaning of power!
Posted by: Anonymous | June 16, 2008 12:01 PM
my wife has me wear a leather bracelet around my twig and berries as a reminder of who owns my equipment. It has 4 beads that sit on top of my johnson right at the base. She love to make me hard and just look at it.
I only come if permitted.
I must please her when she desires an orgasm - maybe none for me.
I only sleep in the bed if she lets me. Otherwise, I sleep on the couch and she gets the King size bed to herself.
I wear a cb3000 when she feels like playing and she always talks about how she could fuck another guy anytime she wants and I am locked up and cannot do anything about it.
Unfortunately, she understands the power of her pussy.
Posted by: tungman | June 24, 2008 1:48 PM