May I use the restroom Ma'am?
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That I don’t care for any of the tenents of female supremacy doesn’t mean I won’t point to to a femsupremacist site. My interest in female domination is coolly catholic at times. Besides a phrase like “if you identify as male” elicits a special sort of sympathy in me.
Bladder control - though we’ve yet to do it - is something Alexandra once expressed an interest in subjecting me to. With care it is a safe way to play with frustrating a man and demonstrate control.
Victoria Catherine writes:
This is, as desired, a fairly discrete, quick, and easy reminder of the power arrangements within the relationship, and it does come with great frequency quite naturally, thus enhancing her control over her male property.
Additionally, when in public, this will give the male a mild dose of public humiliation without any active effort required on the part of the female.
Some examples of possible replies …
For a pretty exhaustive list visit Gynosupremacy and read Restroom Privileges
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Mistress Laura and I have done this on a daily basis from the beginning. The way we work it is this:
1) If there’s no need for discretion, I’m usually naked (doing housework or other things) and I come find her and ask her if I may use the bathroom. Sometimes she makes me sing a silly childrens song (complete with gestures), sometimes she makes me rate it on a scale of 1-10, and sometimes she assigns me something to do (“Bring me a glass of water, and then, you may.”) Depending on her mood, she might make me kneel, kiss her feet and then say “No, you may not.”
2) If there are other people around (for example, if we are at a restaurant), I discreetly ask and she nods or shakes her head and I have to comply.
3) If I am at work and she is online and I can talk to her easily, I’ll message her and ask her. This might then involve a few seconds of online play: “What’s the number? (1-10)” “7, Mistress.” “I want you to put your knees together… Now open your legs as wide as you can… You may not go potty yet, what’s the number now?”…
4) If I can’t ask her, I may go potty, but always peeing sitting down. So I never use the urinals at work or other places.
This set of everyday rituals keeps reminding me that she owns my body and she can make whatever rules she wants; also, every time I go to the bathroom, I think about her and her rules (and I get a bit turned on).
Posted by: Mistress Laura's boy | September 5, 2006 5:10 PM
As a couple the two of you really seem to know how to get the most out of your relationship.
So many men would envy you.
Posted by: Richard | September 6, 2006 9:18 AM