My Lady (Demarcations)

A few days ago when Alexandra was acting playfully as my Goddess I thought we were in an informal mode where I could say no. Something I'd normally never do during one of our normal periods of power exchange.

I did try saying no once but then reluctantly consented. This led to hurt feelings on both sides.

We talked about this last night. And I suggested that I use a different honorific when I feel it is a more informal game and have the right of refusal.

Calling her "My Lady" during those times seems like a good approach. The words are loving and respectful and appeal to my silly courtly side.

I've speculated about the possible use of ceremony and ritual as a way of enhancing our times spent and owner and property. Varying her title seems like to charming way for me to place myself under her command but with freedoms I wouldn't ordinarily have.