Surrendering My Bladder
» D/s Practices
Many strong experiences cause the bladder to not be demanding. Sports is a famous example. When I was working out with weights mine never bothered me.
In D/s I don’t remember needing to pee. But as I’ve often said before when she really has control of me I don’t remember much of anything.
Tonight she surprised me as we were chatting online when she said she’d like to deny me the freedom to piss.
My first response was a fear that it might knock me out of kink space. (When you want to please you should always communicate that kind of worry. No shame in incapability; much in incorrect silence.)
Would be a bit hard to urinate with all that locked about your cock. This drawing by Severin has always bothered me. The man looks merely bored. Ecstasy or suffering I could empathize with. And being the butt worshipper that I am having her cheek against my cheek is a happy place to be.
Even as a youth I used to wet the bed. Finally instead of yelling at me that I was just lazy they took me to a doctor. They gave me radioactive iodine then put me in the hospital and used a cystoscope to explore my bladder.
Later they did something, I don’t know what. But I stopped wetting the bed.
But starting going to the bathroom far more often. So often that I regard urination as a chore.
So I’m pretty aware of the discomfort of holding it in. I even arrange my fluid intact in terms of what I expect to be doing over the following hours.
Seems like I should be an ideal candidate for bladder control.
Though I do fear it might seem to just feel like an inconvenience, nothing submissive.
Now if being so deeply under her control shuts my bladder down it is hard to apologize for being so lost in adoration my body gives up its normal functioning.
Goes without saying I hope that anything she feels would give her pleasure is something I would do my best to conform to.
Comments
Dear Richard,
This has been somewhat of an issue between my Sweet Lady and myself. We have developed a ritual to deal with same: I procured a male, hospital urinal from a local drugstore, when I absolutely must use it I am required to ask for permission. I then must stand in the corner of the bedroom (which I am forbidden to leave) with my front side towards or away from the corner as directed. I must then ask permission to “do my business.” Afterwards, I must wipe myself carefully “with no unauthorized touching”, carefully cap the urinal and set it in it’s place for later disposal and rinsing (my responsibility) and ask permission to return to bed. (Sometimes I get a half a dozen belt “whacks” along with a scolding as payment for interrupting my mistress’ other enjoyments.
Posted by: Naughtius Maximus | October 18, 2005 9:43 AM
To be honest I don’t quite get the significance of peeing in a bottle.
I’m not putting the practice down in any way. Just don’t get it.
Maybe you’d care to elaborate?
Posted by: Richard | October 18, 2005 11:27 AM
Bladder control, what we call “restroom restrictions” have often been part of my wife’s and my play. I will be ordered not to use the restroom after a certain time and be given a quota of how much I am to drink. We then will often play normally, or as normal as BDSM is.
I am punished if I can’t hold as long as she decided I should or if I should leak a bit while doing something.
Even when given permission I am often on a time limit or put in some type of duress. For instance, it is real hard to pee no matter how badly you have to go with a tens unit pumping its output into you penis.
Only drawback I’ve seen is that for some reason I don’t feel hits to the balls as intensly if I have an overly full bladder.
Posted by: bouncingballs | January 2, 2006 9:10 PM
From the little bit I played with the TENS unit trying to urinate while it is turned on sounds pretty interesting.
Need to spend more time with that device. The involuntary muscle contractions are unlike anything else I’ve ever experienced.
Posted by: Richard | January 2, 2006 9:20 PM
When I Ask Mistress, she allow me to pee in a little cup, very littel. If I have more need I have to drnk before pissing again. And so on
Posted by: Beaucul | July 28, 2009 8:12 AM