Training & Conditioning
» D/s Practices
There’s a huge amount of misinformation and folklore about tops engaging in repetitive and restrictive practices to season, shape certain aspects of their submissive partners and slaves. Some of the fault lies with people who post fantasies - like me - that are foolishly dark.
The images range from boot camp to POW brainwashing. Reinforcing or discouraging behavior patterns need not necessarily be a thing of nightmare. At least as long as the potential for deeply hurt feelings are kept firmly in the forefront of the top’s mind.
Some people really do engage in this. Mostly I suspect the 24/7 TPE couples. But what about those whose kink life is a part of a more comprehensive relationship?
Alexandra and I have actually been having some sober discussions along these lines. Given that we’ve yet to resolve the details I’m not going into that. We have mutual affection and respect and considerable wariness of straying into fantasy. This will take effort and time. May never happen.
If you have actually explored risk aware behavior modification or whatever you’d like to call it we would be grateful for you sharing your experiences and expertise.
I’d rather not read fantasies or wishes.
Nor do I really need warnings. But if you have had bad experiences knowledge of those will be welcome.
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