Denied Sex With Girlfriend or Wife?

I suspect that this is not fiction. RIchard, you seem to hang out in some of the same chastity-related forums that I do, and you must have seen posts from men who claim to have turned over their orgasms to various online mistresses, while still being married. This tells me that they’ve either got a wild imagination, or that they are in relationships in which their partners really dont’ care if they are sexually intimate or not.

I think that this is sad. My wife and I sometimes practice chastity play in order to spice things up a bit, and while it might be fun to add some random element for both of us, ours is a completely different dynamic: we enjoy sex with each other; the men who post those stories seem to have disconnected emotionally and sexually from their wives.

The story that you’ve outlined is even more bizarre, although perhaps he’s planning to introduce his g/f to the BDSM lifestyle. Or maybe he’s hoping to carry one some kind of fantasy affair in order to keep his life interesting because his gf is not into BDSM. That seems more likely, and in some ways, even more sad.

Hard to know what to say about this one.

It is both desperate and dishonest.

Eventually it has to just blow up and aside from whatever damage the guy experiences the woman will surely be badly wounded on learning her husband is cheating with a cyberdomme.

Richard, I went back to read the entire journal. If this is a joke or a leg-pull, it’s pretty elaborate and time consuming (assuming his software does not allow him to back-date posts).

It’s sad. He’s married to someone who knows nothing about his “ownership”. That’s a form of cheating in my book. Oh sure, it might be a hoot for him to be denied an orgasm with his wife by someone else, but if he doesn’t bring her into his world soon I’d expect this relationship to head south very quickly.

That it might be a hoax was mostly wishful thinking on my part.

I hope the woman doesn’t come to feel that her husband’s failure to make love with her is due to a failing on her part.

What next the man decides to file for divorce but his “owner” rells him to refuse?

There’s a lot of fiction on the web, and the disclaimer “don’t try this at home” should be part of most postings. They range from snuff and major injury to this sort of psychopathology ,,, and it’s a strong suspicion that Mistress Rachel’s slave is fantasizing to a lerge degree.

Which is fine, just so we understand what’s going on.

The best plan may be what I read someplace the other day: Mistress/Wife planned to divorce Her slave/husband, take everything (really, 100%!) in the legal settlement, then keep him around as a slave, totally dependent on Her mercy and devoted (since he loves Her beyond description anyway) to Her care and service.

Sounds like a great plan! This guy should break off with his vanilla fiance, marry Mistress Rachel, and then settle into amicable divorce and perpetual submission, servitude and suffering.