S&M and Stress : A Scene

Tobie’s scene reports have been among the real pleasures in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm of late. I’m pointing to this one because it is a example of a sensitive and caring top crafting play around the bottom’s emotional stresses.

I *worked* at play today. That’s very unusual.

Philip¹ still has the family stress thing going on that’s taking up a lot of his mind. A mind that is going too many miles a minute isn’t the easiest one to get in happyhappy play space.

I am a determined individual however and wanted to get him to where he could release some of the stress nd I did *not* want to bind him because the frees up his anger response and I didn’t want the play to bring on anger. I wanted him to do his good three stage release, First comes the 3 second relax, second comes the laughter, third comes the tears.

Read Thursdays scene report

1: Philip the Foole, a legendary figure in BDSM.