Fetishes: H

(Damn, more typos than usual have been getting past me. Sorry. Surprising what MS Word does not catch.)

Hair coloring, cutting: my hair is yours to manipulate without D/s.

She likes my hair very sort. And so it became. Bit shaggy now but she’ll cut it on her return.

Hair Waxing (body): to please, never occurred to me. (-)

Glad she’s never expressed interest in this. The pain might be very exciting. Having the hair grow back in would be a nuisance.

Hairbrush spankings: yes.

For many people hairbrush spankings are the sine qua non of D/s punishment. My own hairbrush fantasies focused on genitals and bristles. For me it will always be whips, belts and switches that have the symbolic power.

Hand control mitts: yes.

Losing the ability to use your fingers is another interesting form of powerlessness.

Harnessing: yes.

Doubt there’s a form of bondage that doesn’t excite me.

Having Clothing Chosen for you: whatever makes you happy, again even without D/s.

She said that white clothes would make a nice slave uniform for me when we play outdoors. Ordered some today.

Head Harness: yep.

What can I say? Hooray for bondage!

High Heel worship: tongue at your service.

Guess I’ve made it clear that I think of her boots and shoes all the time.

hoods: only to a degree. They are very expensive.

The thin latex hoods that completely the block the face but don’t interfere with breathing arouse me. Would make me feel like an anonymous object. I’ve imagined her looking at me in a hood and not seeing Richard anymore but a nameless slave.

I’ve often thought the dominant might seem forbidding in a hood or mask. Though most of the former don’t have the right aesthetics.

Simple dark or reflective glasses that hide her eyes might intensify my uncertainty.

Hot oils (on genitals): yes

As a young man I put Wintergreen oil on my penis to see if it would make masturbating more exciting. It was to exciting for me too do more than rush to the sink. But something below the level of capsaicin might be fun.

Hot wax: Fine, would prefer something hot that is easier to clean off.

Candles don’t interest her at all. No complaint.

Human furniture: fine, will taking training to develop ability.

I suspect I’ll be going to human furniture school as soon as my back is better.

Humiliation: for sure.

I think I’m hard to humiliate. I’m too comfortable with myself to feel much shame.

But when she takes me there it is terrifyingly wondrous.