Male Slave Checklist
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The slave checklist that I sent to Alexandra was a personal modification of the one you see all over the web. I have no idea who wrote the original list.
If you fill out the checklist you can put it on a website, if only an anonymous Blogger or Live Journal page. I wouldn’t shove it in a woman’s face. But you can politely explain that if your conversations go well she might wish to take a look at it.
I’ve edited it so that where gender is relevant the fetish is stated in F/m terms. And added quite a bit.
Checklists like this are necessarily redundant: one wording of what is essential the same kink may seem to speak more clearly than another.
Some advise filling out the list with Yes, No, Maybe, Don’t Know. Others suggest a numeric rating scale. If you choose the latter I suggest no less than five and no more than seven (if you go above seven you can drive yourself nuts trying to sort out the sixes from the sevens).
Best is that you comment on each item with a couple of words or great depth depending on your feelings about each act. It may help you clarify your own thinking and there’s no harm in trying to make your needs and desires as clear as possible to a Domina that may read it.
Suggestions are strongly invited.
Abrasion
Age Play
Anal Fisting
Anal Sex
Animal Roles
Ass Worship / Analingus
Bathroom Use Control
Beating (Soft)
Beating (Hard)
Begging
Being Bitten
Belts
Blindfolds
Body Worship With Tongue
Bondage (Light)
Bondage (Heavy)
Bondage (Public, Under Clothing)
Boot Worship
Bowing (Fixed Routines)
Branding (Permanent)
Breath Control / Asphyxiation
Cages
Caning
Castration Fantasy
Catheterization
Cattle Prod
Cigarette / Cigar Smoke
Chains
Choking
Clothespins (Certain Body Parts Only?)
Clothing Specified
Collars
Competitions (With Other Subs)
Confinement (Long Or Short Term)
Crawling On Hands & Knees
Crossdressing
Crush (Objects/Other Things)
Cuckoldry
Cuffs
Cunnilingus
Cutting
Diet Control
Diapers
Dildo (For Her Pleasure)
Dildo (In You)
Domestic Service
Electotorment (Tens Unit/Other)
Enemas (For Cleansing)
Enemas (Retention/Punishment)
Enforced Chastity (Belts)
Examinations (Physical)
Exercise (Forced/Required)
Eye Contact Restrictions
Face Slapping
Fear
Financial Domination
Fire/Flame Play
Floggers
Following Orders
Food Play (Control/Nasty)
Foot Adoration
Forced Bisexuality
Forced Masturbation
Foreskin (Stretching, Torment)
Gags (Limit On Kind Or Preferred)
Gas Masks
Genitorment
Genital Confinement
Genital Sex
Gesture / Hand (Nonverbal) Control
Gun Play
Hairbrush Spankings
Hair Pulling
Handcuffs
Harems (Serving With Other Subs)
Harnesses
High Heel Worship
Hitting (Being Punched)
Hoods
Hot Oils
Hot Wax
Housework / Chores
Human Ashtray
Human Furniture
Human Toilet
Humiliation (Private)
Humiliation (Public)
Hypnotism
Humbler
Ice Cubes (Genitals, Nipples)
Icy Hot / Capsaicin / Similar (On Genitals)
Immobilization
Including Others
Infantilism
Initiation Rituals
Intricate Rope Bondage / Shibari
Interrogations
Kicking (Being Kicked)
Kidnapping
Knee To Groin
Kneeling
Knife Play
Leashes
Lectures
Leg Cuffs
Lent To Other Dommes
Lifestyle F/m
Locked In Closet
Manacles & Irons
Manicures/Pedicures
Masks
Massages
Masturbation (Forced)
Medical Scenes
Milking (Ejaculation Without Orgasm)
Ming Games
Money / Spending Control
Mouth Bits
Mummification
Naked & On Knees (Throughout Scene)
Neglect (Her Indifference, Being Forgotten)
Nudity (Private/Public)
Name Change (For Scene)
Name Change (Permanent)
Needle Play
Nipple Clamps
Nipple Rings (Piercings)
Nipple Weights
Objectification
Over-The-Knee Spanking
Orgasm Control
Orgasm Denial
Outdoor Scenes
Outdoor Sex
Pain (Knowledge Of Limits?)
Penis Clamps / Clothespins
Penis Crushing
Penis Whipping
Prison Scenes
Pony Slave
Positions (Fixed Body Orientation)
Posture Control
Prince Albert
Protocols
Puppy Play
Public Exposure
Public Humiliation
Punishment
Pussy Worship
Queening
Riding Crops
Religious Scenes
Remote Control Devices
Restrictive Rules
Riding The Horse (Crotch Torture)
Routines / Rituals
Rubber / Latex Clothing
Scarification
Scat
Schoolgirl (Cruel, Selfish)
Scratching
Sensory Deprivation
Serving Other Dommes
Sexual Deprivation (Short Term)
Sexual Deprivation (Long Term)
Shoe Worship
Shaving (Body Hair)
Shaving (Genital Hair)
Shaving (Head Hair)
Shoe Worship
Sissification
Sleep Deprivation
Sleep Sacks
Spanking
Speech Restrictions (When, What)
Speculums (Anal)
Spitting
Spreader Bars
Standing In Corner
Stocks
Straight Jackets
Strap-Ons (Sucking On)
Strap-Ons (Penetrated By)
Strapping (Full Body Beating)
Student / Schoolteacher
Suspension (Upright)
Suspension (Inverted)
Suspension (Horizontal)
Tattoos
Teasing
Testicle Crushing
Testicle Leashing
Testicle Whipping
Thumbcuffs
Trampling
24/7 (Temporary / Permanent)
Uniforms
Urethral Sounds (Metal Rods)
Urine (On Body/Face Or Drinking)
Vampire Gloves
Verbal Humiliation
Vibrator On Genitals
Violet Wand (Electrical Toy)
Video (Recordings Of You)
Walking / Crawling Backward (Leaving Her)
Water Torture
Wartenberg Wheel
Wearing Symbolic Jewelry
Weblog (Forced Regular Writing)
Whipping
Wooden Paddles
Worship
Wrapping (Plastic)
Wrestling
Comments
spanking otk bare with a hairbrush is very effective when a mate misbehaves. the sensation becomes painful and should continue until the bottom is bright red. teaching yoy mate in this manner quicly has the victim convinced and sure beats long discussion or periods of silence. consentual whippings become quite useful and clears the air promptly.
Posted by: hotbot8 | May 14, 2006 3:28 PM
you should add nipple removal
Posted by: ray | August 1, 2006 2:35 PM
To be honest I’ve never heard of a nipple removal fetish. Why would a sadist want to give up two objects so open to torment?
Posted by: Richard | August 1, 2006 2:51 PM
Perhaps add the following;
Birching
Nettles
I had a particular fantasy once of the following.
CFNM - Private/Semi-Private outdoor disipline activities
Write for more information.
Mr. B
Posted by: Anonymous | October 11, 2006 3:36 AM
all of the above are what an inferior male slave shoudl expect, without question. as an inferior being my body and mind MUST be at the control of the Domme and as such without question open for use, abuse and modificaiton, if that is Her will. But how to find such a Superior?
Posted by: pig | October 27, 2006 11:26 AM
I need more ways to punish my slave. Whipping remains very effective. As far as the following, he likes them too much: ass worship, stepping on his face,drenching him in urine, drinking my urine, foot worship, groveling,bondage. What can I do to punish humiliatae and discipline this slave???
Posted by: MIstress Lash | November 2, 2006 9:24 PM
vacuum? Deny him what he likes!
Posted by: Kelly | December 12, 2006 3:11 AM
blackmailed into being a toilet slave. naked humiliated, tormented in ladies restrooms.
Posted by: billybitch | February 27, 2007 7:55 AM
Tie him up like Alex in A Clockwork Orange and make him watch Oprah, Alanis Morissette videos and the most maudlin boring chick flicks money can buy. He’ll be begging you for a slow and painful death in no time. Good luck, Mistress and please extend my sympathies to your lucky slave…
Posted by: Lowly worm jim | March 4, 2007 6:10 PM
im a sub, i have a mistress who torturs me day and night, she has branded her name on my body, with red hot iron pipe, she makes me drink her piss every day, only allowed one meal a day, the rest is piss and her scat, if i dont drink or eat that i dont eat at all, that is a slave for you, im her property and she does what she wants, one good meal a day, the rest is all her food, from her body.
Posted by: paul | March 6, 2007 1:37 PM
i have a copy similar to the slave check list - new to this and had different responses to the list. i agree it is a good thing to have. feel free to put out my email address seriously looking for a female controlled relationship. Thanks for this site.
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