Ah, cuckoldry: a benchmark among Femdom fantasies, sometimes realities. One well outside the range of this “humiliation bottom.”
Not that I can’t imagine being the slave of a drop dead gorgeous woman who would keep me chaste and force to watch her have sex with another man. But not if she were my lover, or even my friend. A cheating lover is an ex-lover. Even then it is a chilly fantasy far off in the outer reaches of those that I can’t really imagine wishing to live through.
But I value my friendship with one of the web’s most gifted cuckoldresses, Ms. MacComb. Once I asked her to explain the appeal of cuckolding to me. But I can’t remember where so I can’t quote her answer. Instead I’ll excerpt something she posted to the House of Kink’s College of Cuckold forum:
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I (or any other cuckoldress) go out for dinner to a nice, quiet little restaurant. After selecting a nice bottle of wine, or an aperitif, I order a nice little appetizer (something round, square, deep fried with a dipping sauce, or spicy, unique) and then a Caesar salad. Following this I will have a perfectly cooked Filet Mignon, with all the trimmings. To top it off then a little something sweet for dessert or a cognac, coffee or whatever strikes my fancy. This is my lover. This is my lover’s skill, his body, his scent, aroma, his style and technique.
Now why after that lovely meal (meaning my date with my lover) would I then want to come home and have a shriveled up two day old, cold half a ham and cheese sandwich? That would be you (Simon, or whatever cuckoldresses husband).
Do you guys see the point? Do you see the comparison or analogy? You are our lifemates, the love of our lives, you provide something that our lovers never could and they provide something you can’t. You provide stability, a comfortable homelife, companionship, affection, certain unique services. You are like a favorite pair of slippers, bathrobe, the old reliable car. Our lovers are like high heels (new, expensive and exciting) a new dress and a brand new sports car.
Ms. MacComb is happily married.
She has a blog: Punished Cuckold Husbands*.
There are men who dream every night of this kind of betrayal. I don’t mean that word invidiously but that is what makes cuckolding transgressive and thrilling.
These guys are among those who wander the web competing to be “true submissives” (damnable term) lecturing married men – and women too – on the conduct of their “FLR.” This is one of the ways they feel that women should test men. And any man who disagrees with their gynarchic battiness isn’t a “true submissive.”
Funny what men who say they believe in a silly ideology like matriarchy because women are kind and nurturing want those warm-hearted ladies to do. You’d think domestic bliss was a downsized sort of fascist state.
Naturally they egg the woman on to put her husband in lifetime chastity or even have him castrated. But most women are loving and monogamous. I haven’t any idea what might flit through a woman’s dreams some nights but rarely do they really want to damage their husband.
Their frustrated passion sometimes leads these men to literature, which is why:
Most cuckolding blogs are fiction.
I even ran across one where the man admitted he’d just been presenting fiction as autobiography.
The cuckoldry saga generally progress to the dubious to absurdity. The sequence despite variations is fairly standardized.
Not that erotic fiction can’t be good fun. But if these tales make you feel that cuckolding is something you really wish to experience be wary. Some men have encouraged their wives to subject them to an experience with which they aren’t able to cope.
And the outcome of a kinky thrill is sometimes divorce court.
* Ms. MacComb also has a commercial site for men who enjoy:
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I’m very chary of links to commercial sites. But she’s a fine woman and not a division of an anonymous adult entertainment company (this is not a link to her blog like above):