Cuckoldry and Traditional Spankings
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I first became aware of Ms. MacComb when she left a comment on one of my other weblogs. I think the topic was: Should Husbands Be Spanked? She has two weblogs.
Have you ever wished you could be brought low by being cuckolded? I haven’t. But I can see how for many men it would be the ultimate humiliation. Cuckolding is one of Ms. MacCombe’s specialties.
Public humiliation wasn’t something I’d ever even imagined until I encountered ‘Femdom.’ It gave me my first inklings of the psychological side of F/m D/s.
Ms. MacComb, her friend Isabella and her husband Simon are at an Italian restaurant. The two women make a show of telling their young waiter how attractive he is. What of Simon?
… Simon was growing a bit embarrassed as we paid almost no attention to him and it was obvious to all that we had no intention of doing so and disregarded his being there while our discussion became more graphic and sexually detailed in general… .
Simon did get a little bit of attention.
So as our meal progressed I caught Isabella’s eye and kind of nodded towards Simon. I watched as she casually shifted and raised her leg beneath the table cloth and placed her foot (nice little black low heel’s) in his crotch. His distress and fear was obvious immediatly. He kind of looked at me with pleading in his eyes and I just smiled and kind of laughed.
(I think I wrote a sketch for Alexandra that included something like this bit.)
Her other weblog focuses on corporal punishment and domestic discipline. Domestic discipline is outside my own erotic range but I suspect more people would like that than the theatrical productions that enliven my fantasy life. But canes, switches and birches fill that same life.
While most would never admit it even to themselves, the more conservative people in our society are often the most desiring of being held accountable for their actions and to remove any element of sexual overtones they seek a disciplinarian that will not pursue this avenue. One type is the “MomDom”, a middle aged matronly woman who will administer a discipline spanking without any concern for the bared bottom over her lap or any normal arousal from the person being spanked.
Comments
I assumed this was a natural progression. As the woman assumes more and more control and realizes that she can do what she pleases, that situations like this will eventually arise.
Man or woman we will all come across someone we find attractive. At some point the woman may decide to act on it because she knows her submissive mate is in no position to object.
Posted by: greg | September 12, 2005 2:45 PM
Hey, greg, what the heck do you think you are saying?
Posted by: Kaptain Kink | September 12, 2005 3:14 PM
As a domme I like the idea of having more than one slave, but I can’t really do that because Richard would find it way too distressing, and it would ruin our whole relationship.
Any D/s relationship should be built around communication and consent, therefore being dominant shouldn’t always lead on to cuckoldry.
There is more to being a top than simply getting your own way. Unless, of course, you don’t care for relationships.
Posted by: Alexandra | September 12, 2005 4:07 PM
Well i have been a domme for wuite a while and recently was presented a man that is heavy into the cuckholdry scene the problem i face is exactly how to address it. It does sound like something i want to try and I would like to put my best foot forward on attempting this lifestyle but info leading to the exact dirivatives is shall i say a bit lacking. Are you able to help me out on this one? ^^
Posted by: Demona | June 12, 2006 5:33 AM
I guess that I am a Cuckoodry husband. I see one common thread amongst us cuckold husbands. We are all poor lovers and most have small penises that can’t do the job. Wanting my wife to be fulfilled, I found that seeing her being pleasured in a way I could not even imagine by other men was very exciting and rewarding to me. The other common thing is that my wife is extremly jealous of me when it comes to other woman. I am not allowed to even think about having another woman or even look at one in a sexual way. My enjoyment as a cuckold husband includes is other men seeing my wife in verious stages of nakedness, especially in public. Sitting back and watching as guys look at my wife, as she sits on a bar stool with her legs open and no panties on. Seeing other men getting turned on and wanting my wife is a turn on for me. Seeing her seduce other men. Including flirting, seducing such as dancing slow with their bodies rubbing each other, touching each other and making out, again especially in public. I like to show my wife’s naked pictures to other men, everytime I get the chance, like leaving a picture of her in a public bathroom and watching the reaction of men when they find it. Most of all I enjoy just watching as another men make love to her and bring her to a climax through intercourse. When we make love, my wife will get turned as as I also do, talking about other men. She will tell me to find her a big cock that will satisfy her. She will also have me tell her what I want her to do with that porno type cock. I will touch her as I tell her what I want her to do with the guy and what the guys is going to do to her. In closing, we are happily married and live a normal life, not letting the sexual side of our lives dominate our whole life. It is a small part of our life, but enjoyable sexually to both of us. My wife is fulfilled and I no longer feel any pressure to satisfy her needs.
Posted by: jim | July 28, 2006 10:58 AM