Femdom Blog Holocaust!!!!

These value judgments are left to those individuals who believe that their self reference criteria can be projected on to the larger population. It is for those individuals who have elevated their submission to the heights of spiritualism and faith, and who have convinced themselves that those who are not “true believers” are inadequately submissive or just haven’t discovered the true path to their happiness.

Candace

I refuse to wallow in anger over what S/someone I don't know, or care about, writes to Me or about Me. I accept that some P/people think that T/they know everything about certain subjects and/or about every subject known to H/humankind. I accept that some P/people think that T/They can psychoanalyze a P/person that T/they don't even know, in a few short words or acronyms.

Arcadia

My advice... do not write about what you do not know. Grab a book, hit a site. I am sure you could find something to learn. Something that would make you look just a tad bit like you know what the hell you are talking about.

Goddess-Isis-Moon

When I saw today's entries on a few LFA Blogspot blogs my first fear was that perhaps I'd given offence. Normally I blunt my own prejudices in some of my postings here but have let my cultural disconnection from a few three letter acronyms leak through at times (though also congratulating those who have found happiness through them).

Eventually I figured out that a popular middlebrow Femdom blogger had given offence to Candace of Woman Rules Roost, a woman who over the summer emerged as one of the most attractive spokeswoman for loving female authority.

This is one of those tiny transient tempests that will pass into oblivion quickly enough.

It all put to my mind my biggest failing here over the last several months. I've tended to blunt my own words at times not wanting to disturb some of my readers and virtual friends.

I've at times thinking of a gentlewoman reader and pull back a bit from writing about some of the lurid pleasures that Alexandra and I share. Usually I make up for that by remembering a wonderfully sadistic woman who has left many comments that I treasure.

But fear of giving hypothetical discomfort is a vice in a personal site. When I write for anyone other than myself I'm addressing the wrong audience. It isn't as if I fret about the vanilla people who Google misleads here.

As I wander around the web I feel a universal interest in female domination. I've comment on blogs and posted on forums that don't focus on any of my main fetishes. Lately I've been having a good time on a gynarchist blog and I have no belief in female superiority much less supremacy.

I haven't made an effort to trace this brouhaha to the beginning. But I'd suggest:

• Trust in online communications should come slowly.
• The goal is to share and have a good time while doing so.
• Be ready for disagreement, sometimes harshly stated. One person's straightforward honesty may be your idea of rudeness.
• Trolls and flame wars have been a part of the internet since before the web was added to it. They aren't going away.
• If you really don't like a comment delete it and forget about it: don't personalize comments from strangers. You'll wear yourself out.
• Ask yourself what effect a comment has on your life. None, right?
• A sense of humor is the supreme requirement.

The glory of the web is pluralism. Try to always accept very different lifestyle choices. Many people think they know a "truth." Probably they don't. You'll never persuade them otherwise.

If something annoys you: close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, relax, give yourself a treat and toss it from your mind.

A prior note: