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The point is that some of us choose to use these more or less public forums to ruminate, to think out loud, and to perhaps smooth the way for others; while we appreciate most of the comments, some of them seem to be nothing more than an indulgence of their own fantasies.
Tom’s post Helpful Suggestions (inspired by Candace’s) reminded me of something.
Several years ago when I identified as bisexual I used to hear from men who wanted me to make them wear panties, force them to shave their pubic hair and use them as my “bitch.”
None of these were gay men. They were said they were bisexual and with very few exceptions were married and wanting to suborn me into cover adultery.
They had serious sexual identity problems and probably found their marriages sexually unfulfilling. Having never known a moment’s sexual shame I should’ve perhaps felt compassion instead of disgust.
Unlike Candace I rarely get advice on improving my romantic life. But I see many comments that purport to be biographical but are merely fibs. Mostly featuring the trinity of chastity, cuckoldry and feminization.
Aside from being unable to live these fantasies the men I must be impelled by confusion and guilt. What is more poisonous to the mind than guilt?
Their minds must be a jumble of latent bisexuality and some variant of gender dysphoria. And perhaps are ashamed of their basic sexual desire. A curse of this civilization for about two millennia.
A few find solace in phone sex operators or even visit ProDommes.
A lucky very few form a relationship with a dominant woman with matching desires.
With current social norms most will never do more than leave unwanted comments on blogs.
Related: Make Me Your Sissy Bitch!
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