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I’ve never paid for D/s or any sort of sex (though I did briefly sell myself and others when young). Not that I’d ever hint there’s anything wrong with seeing a dominatrix.
Oddly enough I’ve exchanged words with a number of ProDomme’s for reasons having nothing to do with BDSM. None of them knew that I had either a heterosexual component or submissive side. Octavia left a few comments on one of my many weblogs.
Her landlord had sent a lawyer to hassle her:
Negotiations began. In no uncertain terms I spell out the terms that I want, knowing full well that my landlord will never agree, but hoping for a point to begin bargaining from. He agreed to everything I requested. Put it through the court without calling my landlord for approval!!! As we finished up, he asked what I did for a living. I was evasive, I said that I have a few different freelance jobs. He replied, “I’m submissive to my wife. Are you a Domme?” I was so shocked, I just told him the truth. He said, “I KNEW IT!” I asked how and he referred back to me telling him to get back to work. I suspect he may have recognized me or maybe his submissive sixth sense was just responding to me.
Matisse reads one of my weblogs (not this one). She’s one of the best-known sexuality weblog writers around. When Alexandra and I were talking about getting together I turned to her for a bit of advice. Here’s a portion of one of her many transcripts of telephone calls from clueless men:
Caller: Yeah, I got a question for you. You do dominance and submission sessions, right?
Me: Yes.
Caller: Well, how much are your submission sessions? I mean the ones where you submit to me.
Apparently the significance of the title “mistress” is rather lost on this guy.
Me: No, I don’t do that.
Misstress V left a couple of comments here. The point that erotic dominance is a spectrum can never be made often enough.
Maybe I just thought it was common knowledge, that people should know there is going to be things I do in My lifestyle that I could not, nor would not do in a Pro Dominatrix session.
Should you feel tempted to post the URL of a ProDomme weblog let me give you some stipulations:
It must be ongoing, not something dead and forgotten. There have to be entries whose purpose is to interest and entertain: it must be at least partly personal. I’d delete a link to something that is really only a money making site.
